Hi [@WarriorWilko]‍ welcome to the thread but so sorry you find yourself here . This group of ladies have been a fantastic support to me and will be to you also . 

I’m 45 was diagnosed in March IDC her2 + , Ed &pr+ , and it’s in my lymph nodes . Had chemo and have had mastectomy and auxiliary clearance last Thursday. It’s a tough long road but you will get there . We have all been there when you feel every little ache and pain and you imagine the worst . I’m sending you positive vibes and support. 

Hope all goes well for you with your results . 

Take care 

j xx

Hello BigJean

It’s good to hear from you - thank you for replying. It’s so good to know we’re not on our own on this journey, although I wish none of us were on it in the first place. I really hope you get your drain out today or tomorrow and that you can catch up on some sleep. You sound very positive though and I know that will really help, both physically and mentally in our recoveries. I’m trying to get there and today has been fractionally easier than yesterday. 

Sending you too my best wishes

Helen xx

Hi Jolamine

The pillow has been sourced, great to know two of you recommend!!!

Sleep is illusive tonight but that's okay as I actually enjoy a little "quiet time"!

Have a lovely Thursday. Rosie

Hi WL , 

wishing you all the best for today . Hope everything goes well and you get home quickly and recover . 

Hope everyone is doing and keeping well .

wishing you all the best and hope everyone has a lovely weekend.

sending lots of love 

j xx

Hi

Thank you. All went well and I'm back at home to rest and recover I feel knackered if I'm honest. Pray to the wound goddess that the graft takes. 
 

Hope you are good as well. X

Hi, 

great to hear you are home and that all went well . You will be able to relax more and feel much more comfortable in your own surroundings.

You have every right to feel knackered you have been through an awful lot these last few weeks .

Take it easy and get plenty of rest .

have a lovely weekend.

jxx

Hi Woollylamb

Chuffed you are home and praying that the graft takes, you deserve a break after the past few months.

Wishing you a lovely weekend

Rosie

Hello again everyone

I just wanted to let you know that although I haven’t been on here for a while you are all in my thoughts and prayers every day. I’m just finding the emotional side of this very difficult, as I know you all are too.

Rosie80, I’m sorry you find yourself on here, but I’m sure you’re finding the support of these lovely ladies invaluable. 

With ongoing love & very best wishes to you all

Helen

Hi Helen

Thank you very much for your kind words.  It is truly awful to have to be on this site but as you righty say, the support of the ladies here is proving totally invaluable and a great source of comfort.

It's good to be able to through the posts in those dark hours of night when sleep is illusive and find answers to questions I didn't know I had.

I will be honest, this is a hard time of life but I'm doing my utmost to keep positive.

Sending you some really positive vibes and a virtual hug to try and help you at the moment.

Rosie

HI Helen,

I'm so sorry to hear that you are struggling emotionally  at the moment. If it is of any consolation, we all do at your stage, but rest assured that we are all here for you, whether you want information, a chat or just simply to rant.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

Hi Rosie80

Just a quick message to say I was thinking of you today. Hope your op went ok and you are resting up. Big hugs.

WL

Helen

Just checking in to see how you are? It can be tough sometimes with everything that's going on, it feels like you go from one appointment to the next with no time to think about the enormity of what's going on.

anyway - always here if you need a chat.

WL

Helen

Just checking in to see how you are? It can be tough sometimes with everything that's going on, it feels like you go from one appointment to the next with no time to think about the enormity of what's going on.

anyway - always here if you need a chat.

WL