Anxiety and waiting for results

I am part way through my journey after discovering I had stage 2 lobular cancer. Had a lumpectomy and now just waiting for my treatment plan. Sample is being sent to USA, do not know too much about this test. I have been told by my oncologist that he feels chemotherapy is not likely but just to be sure they have this facility to send the sample and information from my operation to California. Apparently they can ascertain with more certainty if they feel the decision made by my oncologist is correct for me. Whilst I do not relish the thought of chemotherapy I prefer to know for sure that radiotherapy and tablets are the best solution for me.  I just feel that I have put myself in an even more anxious place as it means more waiting. Any ideas to get my head in a better place would be gratefully received. Thanks in advance.

  • Hello Golden2512 and welcome to our forum,

    The wait for results you describe can truly be nerve-racking and so many people on our forum will understand what you are going through at the moment having themselves had a similar experience. As the sample has been sent to the USA the wait may be a little bit longer as a result but it will be worth it though in the end. As you said, it will be a way of confirming that the decision made by your oncologist is the right one so it should ultimately provide you with extra reassurance and guidance.

    I am not sure how long you will have to wait to receive these results but in the meantime, the best thing to do is to keep busy and distracted if you can. I know it is easier said than done, but try to avoid for example looking things up online as it will make you even more anxious.

    Keep in touch and if you can and let us know what you find out when the results come through

    Best wishes,

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator

  • Hello, I too am waiting for my treatment plan after a lumpectomy for grade 2 ductal carcinoma ( jan 3rd) I was told my her2 neg had to be retested...although the surgeon didn't k ow why it was being retested.

    so.....now yet more waiting.....do you know why yours is being set to the USA? What is it they are testing? 

    Good luck and I hope we both get started on our treatment plans soon xxx