Hi

im really sorry about your diagnosis and to all the others recently diagnosed here also. I was diagnosed with stomach cancer in August at age 46 so understand what you’re going through. There will be a rollercoaster of emotions, highs and lows but it’s all normal. 

A bit of advice if you’re looking for a good blog to read about BC is Liz O’Riordand she is a breast surgeon who has also had BC, her blog about her experiences and chemo were very beneficial to me even though I’ve a different cancer. Also the BBC radio 5 live blogs ‘you me and the big c’ are a great listen. (3 women with cancer, one of them Laura was on first dates hotel this year if you watch it) they touch on all subjects related to cancer and it’s treatment and I found really relatable due to their ages. I just found it reassuring hearing people talking about it in normal terms. 

Wishing you all well and a wonderful Christmas. Definitely have the wine and enjoy! X

that’s great to know thank you! Will deffo have a look at that blog! Thank you for all the messages ladies and thinking of you all! We all got this, and will kick cancer in the Butt together! Lots of love you beautiful brave women xxx

Hi all my lovely new friends, 

Just a quick update. I got some fabulous news today that my cancer has not spread. I nearly fainted, I was so convinced. I'm starting chemo after 27th. 6 months. And I'm on a new drug, can't remember the name that will be given same time as chemo that they think will really squash my aggressive cancer.

I'm looking forward to a dew days off and having cuddles with my children and making Christmas special for them. 

Sending all my love and positive thoughts to an amazing bunch of ladies on here

Xxxxx

Oh I am pleased! Our minds can go into overdrive, now try and relax in the knowledge that the cancer hasn't spread and that your treatment plan is in place and that it is the best plan for you....tailored just for you for the best results. Let's all compare notes once we are on that journey......boost each other up.....xxxxxxx

Yes definitely Marlyn. You've got a friend for life 

Xxxxx

Cancer has brought us together! How funny is that? We got to look at the positives I suppose...xxxxx

There has to be at least one!

Xxxxx

so pleased to hear this Lunamuna ️ I hope I get the same news soon! Got scans coming up next week and talking to someone about the chemo and what to expect and fertility treatment before! 

Try and enjoy your Christmas as much as possible that’s what I am trying to do ️

Lots of love ladies xxx

Thanks country girl. I've got everything crossed for you too.

My sister had ivf (not the same, I know) but got lucky first time. The things they can do with fertility treatments are amazing these days. I've read that periods will stop during chemo and then start again afterwards. But don't worry about that too much. Just get yourself better.

The waiting to find out what exactly you are fighting is the worst. Worst thing I've ever had to do. But we are all gear for you.

Have you got a close network of support around you?

Thinking of you 

Xxxxx

I too was diagnosed on 29th November. Mine is grade 2 stage 4 because it is in my skin and chest wall. It is highly ER positive so have been put on an oestrogen inhibitor to shrink it and make surgery easier. They have also found a smaller lesion in the same breast and have had biopsy for that hopefully the medication will halt both. I should be on the medication for 6 to 9 months before surgery.

My CT and MRI scans showed no secondaries and no swollen lymph nodes so not sure what it is. It is not in my breast but on the bra line underneath that it why it is in the chest wall and skin.

I am quite a bit older than you - I am 72 but I am determined to fight this.

I too was diagnosed on 29th November. Mine is grade 2 stage 4 because it is in my skin and chest wall. It is highly ER positive so have been put on an oestrogen inhibitor to shrink it and make surgery easier. They have also found a smaller lesion in the same breast and have had biopsy for that hopefully the medication will halt both. I should be on the medication for 6 to 9 months before surgery.

My CT and MRI scans showed no secondaries and no swollen lymph nodes so not sure what it is. It is not in my breast but on the bra line underneath that it why it is in the chest wall and skin.

I am quite a bit older than you - I am 72 but I am determined to fight this.