Hi Alibarbara,  I am so sorry to hear about your diagnosis.  It is very scary being diagnosed with cancer and also to find out it has spread to your bones.  My Mom had breast cancer when she was 60 but fortunately didn't die from it.  I was diagnosed with breast cancer when I was 47 and had lumpectomy, chemo, radiotherapy and hormone treatment for five years.  Last year in September I was diagnosed with secondary breast cancer with mets in most of my bones when I was 59.  I was so scared this time last year and wondered if I would see Christmas.  This year feel a lot better.  It is not the end,  this is not curable but definitely treatable.  I am living my life with cancer,  and have just got back from a holiday in Portugal.  With all the new drugs and treatments being developed all the time we can have many years to live.  Being positive definitely helps.  I know you can't be positive all the time and in the beginning it is very hard.  You are not alone.  I am on this forum everyday so can chat anytime.  Big hugs.

Lee x