It’s so scary, I don’t know how anyone copes, I just can’t bring myself to tell my wee ones. I’ve been keeping super busy… but to the point of being manic snd obsessively decorating my kids room sorting things out, working… I just feel like it’s going to hit me after the op’ then more waiting. We’ve rearranged our holiday I thought the kids would be totally gutted but they are feeling really exited swoped 10days in lanzerote for 3 days in Blackpool. They must know somethings up. Sorry I don’t have any advice, I’m going to start with gratitude diary again 3 new things everyday to be grateful for, it’s helped in the past… and suduko when I can’t sleep. Also headspace app has a coping with cancer meditation. Take care x x
It’s so scary, I don’t know how anyone copes, I just can’t bring myself to tell my wee ones. I’ve been keeping super busy… but to the point of being manic snd obsessively decorating my kids room sorting things out, working… I just feel like it’s going to hit me after the op’ then more waiting. We’ve rearranged our holiday I thought the kids would be totally gutted but they are feeling really exited swoped 10days in lanzerote for 3 days in Blackpool. They must know somethings up. Sorry I don’t have any advice, I’m going to start with gratitude diary again 3 new things everyday to be grateful for, it’s helped in the past… and suduko when I can’t sleep. Also headspace app has a coping with cancer meditation. Take care x x
This is what I've been doing keep super busy ,although it's now Monday and I struggle with the weekday eves when I'm alone mind starts back up to its negative thinking ,
I'm sorry you had to change your holiday plans BUT bless the kiddies are still super excited for it :-)
Pretty sure my daughter knows there something up with me she super, super clingy atm lots of cuddles which I love !
I'll have try them ideas as they sound pretty good and I'm up for trying anything just to see if it helps.
You too, take care. Yes my 8year old is permanently attached I thought it was because I was working lots but maybe he knows something is up this is really *** it’s not it x
