Just found out today my Dad has pancreatic cancer. It was discovered on a CT scan of his abdomen, waiting to see a specialist but the radiologist report said it appearrs unresectable. News has just left me numb. 

I’m really sorry to hear that, I wish there was something I could say that would made it better but letting it out definitely helps, even only a little bit, please don't bottle it up.

Thanks, just feel helpless, buts it's definitely good to talk

Sorry I haven’t replied, a lot has been going on, we found out about my dads from a CT scan too, it’s really difficult to know what to do and how to support someone going through that, I find myself sitting there feeling selfish for letting it get to me so much when my dad is the one going through it, like I said to my dad even if it turns out the way we all hope it would it’s still an eye opener that my dad won’t be around forever and it’s upsetting, loosing my dad has always been my biggest fear but I’m also grateful that we still have some time, we can talk and laugh and cry together

Sorry I haven’t replied, a lot has been going on, we found out about my dads from a CT scan too, it’s really difficult to know what to do and how to support someone going through that, I find myself sitting there feeling selfish for letting it get to me so much when my dad is the one going through it, like I said to my dad even if it turns out the way we all hope it would it’s still an eye opener that my dad won’t be around forever and it’s upsetting, loosing my dad has always been my biggest fear but I’m also grateful that we still have some time, we can talk and laugh and cry together

My Dad has an appointment next week with a specialist, so in limbo till then. I'm the same, always a big fear of not having my Dad and it's a real wake-up call. 

My Dad has an appointment next week with a specialist, so in limbo till then. I'm the same, always a big fear of not having my Dad and it's a real wake-up call.