Hi there , so sorry to hear your diagnosis . Yes it is hard to take it all in. I kept getting waves of panic with stomach churning. I would like to make some suggestions if I may. Firstly give Maggie’s a call . They are a charity usually attached to a hospital . You can either ring them to have a chat or make an appointment to go in to talk to someone . Try to go out every day for a walk, coffee . The charities all have helplines so you call them as well. Sending you a hug x

Thank you x

Kirsty 

o had breast cancer last year the early days are scary but it honestly doesn’t stay like that once you accept what’s happening it seems to go smooth and straightforward I’m one year on and fully back to crazy life and have been for msmy months here to chat or help anytime love Lara xx. 

Thank you hun xxx

I remember coming here first time just one year ago and thinking how strong the ladies here are and what they have been through and before you no it you have been through it and out other side and here to help newbies this chat saved me mentally so I can’t leave now as the help I had was amazing here xxx 

I remember coming here first time just one year ago and thinking how strong the ladies here are and what they have been through and before you no it you have been through it and out other side and here to help newbies this chat saved me mentally so I can’t leave now as the help I had was amazing here xxx 

It is amazing thank you again x

Chin up my beautiful girl you are strong you can do this and smash it and be such a strong person afterwards you may not realise the strength you have in you yet but you will do it and stand talk after big hugs love Lara xxx 

Thanks hun. Can I ask did you cancer spread to lymph nodes as mine has on one side just gotta check other xx hope you don’t mind me asking x

Yes it had spread to nodes I had a seperate operstion removing all nodes it went well I still didn’t require chemo x 

My friend had it spread to all nodes 8 years ago and she’s still fine it’s not end of world honestky it’s common xxx 

Thanks hun. Just hope not spread anywhere else had mri last night that was horrible as I suffer with anxiety and panic but I done it xx

Kirsty 

im sure it won’t have but it’s horrible waiting soon it be over all these tests and you move on to start getting rid of it . Have they said chemo or no chemo ? Xx 

They mentioned it all x

I had operation first x 

Yeh they said don’t know with way around I have things until tests are done. Thanks again x