Oh Jules forgive my post on my site to you .....I am so sorry not to have known of your hubbies departure.  You know from the support you have given me how well I understand your current situation and my heart goes out to you.  My site tells of my joirney through this uncharted place you find yourself in.  It is difficult but you will come through.

All my thoughts and a big virtual hug

Ian x

Hi Ian

Just lovely to see your name appear on my thread and suspect its just as hard for you to post but I really appreciate the message.  It was a long three years for hubby and I take much comfort in the fact that he is now free from the clutches of his disease which took his happiness away.  I am surrounded by the love of my family and friends (and the ongoing support of virtuality buddies) and now, like you, my life must be lived to the best of my ability. Early days still but so many memories to cherish and share with others - a few late nights of 'story-telling' along the way.

Sending hugs and best wishes and hope all is well with you and Julie in your new life.  Jules x

Cmon guys play fair,
Brian and I are not obsessed with eating (not all the time). I do prattle on about the garden occasionally and he does things with trees.... eh ....wood
K x
 

Hi Brian ..... I must admit Kathy's mention of cheese scones does make me buy some now and again - I have never attempted to bake them as cooking is something I do as a 'must do' rather than for a pleasure. I shall be buying some chocolate raisins when hubby gets home and I can get a lift to the shop - cant wait to get my licence back! (I hope I will!). 

Jewsons was a huge employer in Lowestoft when I was young - so that name was blast from the past. Poor Mrs B - she has a lot to put up with if she also has to listen to the versatility of wood conversations haha!  The lady is a Saint!  A Saint who loves you though, there is no doubt about that x

Hey Max, do you think Brian should form a splinter group or is he branching out?  
Do you think he has twigged? You wooden know it.
Sorry must be a full moon approaching.
Kathy xx
 

Hi Kathy,

Thanks for making me laugh. You have a lovely sense of humour. I wish you a peaceful weekend, Brian.

Hi Max

Well you have given me food for thought! Have only managed to finish one book in the last few months (concentration difficult!!) and still yet to open the next one.  Had not considered trying the bathroom (do not wish to make light of the reason you are 'throne sitting' and do wish you could be reading in a comfy armchair instead) and not sure the decor in mine would be inspiring (stuck in the 70's when we married and bought the cheapest suite on the market (chocolate brown).  Plans for the future I think lol.

Wishing you a comfortable weekend and once again thanks for the link on the other thread (short response sent last night so we know it's working yey).  Garf appears to have a problem but hopefully can be sorted soon. Hugs  Jules x

Good morning Brian

Well, my evening out started off okay as we always enjoy a chinwag (and I had missed a week).  No luck for either of us but that is always seen as a bonus.  Sadly though at the end of the session the Manager announced that as from 21st May there would be no more bingo as the site had been sold. We are hoping to go to the 'last hoorah' (a Thursday) and feel so upset for the staff (most been made redundant) and will also now have to think of something else to do as, generally, this is our one night out a week. As my friend will also be moving out of the area (contracts waiting to be exchanged) I need something locally so will be making enquiries to see what's around.

Yesterday was so busy from the off, Appointment for hair early a m followed by a visit to see my late friend's husband (year anniversary looming).  He had lots of family news to catch up on and also has a new lady friend (early days) but was a little more relaxed in general which was good to see.

I then dashed home and grabbed some lunch before going down to see Mum and join in the party for the Manager's retirement.  I was expecting a little afternoon tea but when I arrived all the residents had been moved into the main lounge  and were being entertained by a singer (plus karaoke!).  The first song was t one  we had chosen for hubby's funeral and thus was very emotional for me and half the staff were in tears because Gillian was leaving  and she started me off again with an enormous hug. Everyone is going to miss her caring support.  Her husband does the gardens and she is coming back on a voluntary  basis after a bit of travelling as she says she will miss the residents (but not the day to day stress of running the place!).  One of the residents was celebrating a birthday so had cake and singsong for that and then all visitors/relatives/staff were offered cream tea/wine/tea or coffee/soft drinks/snacks in the dining room for the rest of the afternoon (residents were served in their comfy armchairs too). Mum was her usual non-commital self but was seen to be tapping her feet to the music. It was difficult to  chat with all the hub-bub but will go down  again soon and hopefully take some photos down of the holidays (have ordered prints for the first time in ages as she will prefer to look through an album than see them on the camera!).

Hope your Show goes well and am sure there will be load of interest in all your hard work as well as all the other contributors to the wood club. Fingers crossed you can sign up some 'new blood' too.

Wow, sorry for the long ramble (again).  Will shortly be going out to return a dog toy that my friend left behind yesterday (another unexpected and welcome visitor who lost her Mum  a couple of months ago and is just beginning to feel able to be 'social' again and we are going out for a meal next week which is something for us both to look forward to).

All the best to you and Mrs B and look forward to hearing about the Show in due course.  Jules x

Hi Kathy

Really? not obsessed with eating - why not?!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Just to add fuel to the fire - my son's other half has promised me a bundle of rhubarb from their garden when they visit next - yummy - a good excuse for a crumble I think.  In the meantime here is a photo to whet anyone's appetite (pub lunch whilst on holiday!!)drooling Jules xxxx

Oh Jules you are getting as bad as blooming Brian.
What's the green stuff in small round container?  As I haven't had tea guess you are teasing me....  Rhubarb crumble... Yum.
Gosh you have been busy recently.  Your post reminded me of when mate rang tonight and put her radio up full blast, one of hubbys funeral choices was playing, made me smile which was good.  Brings back pleasant memories. 
Am turning into a woose, kitchen thermometer showing 20 degrees and wish the heater was on, will chuck a blanket over knees instead. 
Good to hear mum is doing ok.
Sorry to see your bingo place is closing, it has been a good place for you to visit and if you get a win that's a bonus.
Ok honey, will sign off, wonder if Brian can make crumble for Mrs B with nice warm custard.... Bit of a challenge for him I think.
Lots of love
Kathy xx
 

Hi Jules and Kathy,

I can cook Kathy---------I have a large recipe list -------Toast and Beans on toast , thats if you dont mind the toast incinerated. Mrs B is a good cook so I only cook when it is a matter of some urgency.

Jules like Kathy, I was pleased to read you enjoyed your night out but also sorry to hear the bingo is closing. Have loaded all my bits up for tommorows show and am looking forward to winding my wood club mates up yet again although it will be with a touch of sadness that one of our regular exhibters is no longer with us. I have spent the afternoon on my computer and found I could download a free program from microsoft. I can now do puzzels on my laptop and it also allows me to make a puzzel of any photos I have taken. So have been experimenting with this.

Jules, You have like Kathy got me drooling over the mention of Rhubarb crumble. mmmmnnnn. Max, you are right, I seem to be fixated on food just lately.

I hope you all have a peacefull and relaxing weekend. Take care, hugs to you all, Brian

Hi Kathy

Sorry about the foodie photo but just could not resist getting in on the act haha.  The green stuff was mushy peas (first time I had every had it but apparently very popular!!)  That particular plateful was sitting in front of my son's other  half and I was just intrigued at how they served it (did not last long I can tell you!!).

Had an unplanned shopping trip this  morning as my bingo friend phoned and said she was going to supermarket (cut price out of town) and I went along for the ride (and then shopped for the store cupboard in readiness for family lunch in a couple of weeks) Thought of you when I popped a whole camembert into the trolley.  We dropped my shopping indoors and then went back to their place for tea and angel cake (not very healthy but enjoyable nonetheless). Their daughter and son in law (he is in remission from bone cancer and doing really well just now) popped in  and and then dropped me home (would not hear of me walking though I like the exercise!!).

You are not a wuss re the temperature as you are so used to hot weather, this must feel chilly for you, whereas I have temp of 17 deg in the lounge just now and just need a cardigan(in addition to normal layers I hasten to add). Am sure I would feel like you do in similar circumstances.

Hope your Mum and sisters doing okay now they are settled back at home and bet you are skyping regularly(not something I have).  Take care and chat soon.  Jules x

Hi Kathy

Sorry about the foodie photo but just could not resist getting in on the act haha.  The green stuff was mushy peas (first time I had every had it but apparently very popular!!)  That particular plateful was sitting in front of my son's other  half and I was just intrigued at how they served it (did not last long I can tell you!!).

Had an unplanned shopping trip this  morning as my bingo friend phoned and said she was going to supermarket (cut price out of town) and I went along for the ride (and then shopped for the store cupboard in readiness for family lunch in a couple of weeks) Thought of you when I popped a whole camembert into the trolley.  We dropped my shopping indoors and then went back to their place for tea and angel cake (not very healthy but enjoyable nonetheless). Their daughter and son in law (he is in remission from bone cancer and doing really well just now) popped in  and and then dropped me home (would not hear of me walking though I like the exercise!!).

You are not a wuss re the temperature as you are so used to hot weather, this must feel chilly for you, whereas I have temp of 17 deg in the lounge just now and just need a cardigan(in addition to normal layers I hasten to add). Am sure I would feel like you do in similar circumstances.

Hope your Mum and sisters doing okay now they are settled back at home and bet you are skyping regularly(not something I have).  Take care and chat soon.  Jules x