Oh Jules forgive my post on my site to you .....I am so sorry not to have known of your hubbies departure.  You know from the support you have given me how well I understand your current situation and my heart goes out to you.  My site tells of my joirney through this uncharted place you find yourself in.  It is difficult but you will come through.

All my thoughts and a big virtual hug

Ian x

Hi Ian

Just lovely to see your name appear on my thread and suspect its just as hard for you to post but I really appreciate the message.  It was a long three years for hubby and I take much comfort in the fact that he is now free from the clutches of his disease which took his happiness away.  I am surrounded by the love of my family and friends (and the ongoing support of virtuality buddies) and now, like you, my life must be lived to the best of my ability. Early days still but so many memories to cherish and share with others - a few late nights of 'story-telling' along the way.

Sending hugs and best wishes and hope all is well with you and Julie in your new life.  Jules x

Hi Brian

So you are adding to your owl family (Mrs B will be delighted and you may have trouble getting them out of the house ha ha).  I am sure with your 'I can do it' philosophy you will succeed with the new jig and hope also that you have a lot of interest in your 'discount company booklet' after the effort you have put into it - am sure you will.

The walk to Mum's was lovely and so many front gardens brightened up with spring bulbs. Felt really relaxed when I arrived half an hour later.  To add to my pleasure Mum was on a good day and we had a real happy chat for an hour and she also asked (and got) a manicure by the 'activity lady'.  She was off into enjoy fish pie for lunch followed by a trip upstairs to the hair salon (hairdressers come in two days a week).  I do try to make the most of these visits.  Will be going in again on Sunday morning before being 'treated' to an afternoon of tea and cakes by my children and their other halves. 

The little win at bingo will be added to my holiday pot so something to look forward to.  Have a peaceful day with MrsB.  Kind thoughts sent your way.  Jules

Hi Jules,

I have something I would like to share  with you regarding my youngest grandson. As you may remember he has to go into hospital on Friday for his operation. My son has told us about something that was said when he was in  for his pre op last week.

My greandson was asked if he wanted to wear a hospital gown or his pajamas when he has his op. He replied, "If you mean that gown where your bum falls out the back, I would sooner wear my pajamas. I'm not showing my bum to anyone". Needless to say, all the nurses and doctors fell about laughing and others came to see what all the laughter was about.

Hope you get a big a laugh about it as we did, take care, Brian.

Hi Brian

Your grandson is a marvel and as with lots of kiddies has 'an old head on young shoulders' and a wonderful sense of humour - definitely following in grandad's footsteps I reckon. I do so wish him all the very best for Friday as he really deserves a break.  Thanks for cheering me up no end.  Jules x

Hi Jules,

Thanks for your reply and kind wishes. I ent to se my grandson last night before going to the woodclub. He told me he is reading The Hobbit Book and has got up to page 85. My son told me he has alrready told the hospital he is taking the book in with hin in case he gets time to read any more.

With regard to the ad on Facebook I was pleased to be able to help. This site has helped so many so anything that brings more members has to be a good thing. I managed to mow the front lawn but the back one is still to wet as yet. Enjoyed the meeting last night as it was about a local group that go aroung repairing all the styles on the local footpaths. On Saturday I have another cancer meeting so still keeping busy.

Have also been to my local nut shop and have stocked up. Made the staff laugh as I told them I was concerned when I found the old shop closed. But found out they were just moving round the corner. So while writting this I am feasting on some cashew nuts.

Hope you have  a good few days off now and that you have a good night out tommorow night. Take care, best wishes, Brian

Hi Jules,

Just a quick update on my grandson. He went in very early this morning and his op went okay and he is now home, playing on his ex-box. He had the camera down the throat and they were able to zap the infection with a laser so do hope he will feel more comfortable shortlu and that he wont keep feeling sick all the time. 

Attached is a photo of him taken by my son this morning.

Thanks again for your kind thoughts and words, Brian.

Great news Brian and think he did a good 'nose job' too. Such a brave lad and probably be running around at school soon!! Full of bouncebackability for sure.

Lovely day here so have managed to do a couple of hours in the garden (clearing deadwood from my shrubs) and will have to prepare containers soon as son picking up large bags of compost so I can plant up the dahlia tubers. Have some wildflower seedmix to sprinkle around but need to prepare the ground first and still rather heavy! May take myself off to the garden centre early tomorrow (get discount for oaps if shop  before 11.30) as need some fine netting to protect containers from digging cats once newly planted.

Been a bit of a mixed day as regards emotions as have begun to clear out books hubby used to read. Bagged up and ready to drop into charity shop (he loved sci fi and I am not a fan!!). Am half way through a thriller but only managing a few pages at a time before mind wanders (not always sure where its going) - hoping once the weather is kind enough to let me sit outside will get concentration back.  Have also recieved formal letter of apology from the Registrar's Dept so suppose not surprising feel a bit 'rocky'.

Will be going out this evening and hope that will blow some 'happy vibes' in my direction.  Hope you and MrsB have a peaceful weekend.  Off to put the kettle on and plan dinner. Take care.Jules x

Hi Jules,

Thanks for the reply. I can understand how clearing out hubbys books effected you emotionally. I felt terrible when clearing my mother things. Several time I had tears in my eyes when I found things she had kept. Can also understand you not being able to contrate on your book. It's still early days .

My grandson is pretty near back to normal and will get the dressings looked at on Tuesday. Just had a good laugh with my next door neighbour. The postman was delivering a cardboard box for her but as she is not able to get to the door quickly, I told him I would take it for her. When I took it round for her she was puzzelled as she hadnt sent for anything. I saw she was struggling to open it so I opened it up for her. Inside was yet another box which she could not get out. Even I had trouble it was such a tight fit. When she eventually opened up the second box she said "Good lord, it's my spare boob". I am still laughing now She had a breast removed because of cancer many years ago and her daughter had ordered a new one for her and she had forgotten about it. I told her maybe she had won a booby prize!!!!!!!

Any way hope this make you smile like it has me. Take care, hugs, Brian.. 

Hi Brian

Well your post did make me smile and thank you for sharing the tale about your neighbour's special delivery - she must be quite a character.

I am sure your grandson will have his cheeky side ready for when he has his dressings checked and do hope that this op will help him with the problems he had been experiencing - being young will no doubt help the healing process and he has an amazing outlook.  No doubt you will hear all about soon.

Had hoped for a nice day but its drab and drizzly here so instead of heading into the garden (had planned on planting up containers in the front garden), I will go the the shops early and if the forecast is correct and it dries up later, then I will head outside.

Saw Mum on Sunday and she is planning to have hair hair done today and I was informed 'no  need to visit again  as nothing to say!! - bless her. Even at my age I am still doing what I am told.

Later in the week will babysit for my daughter as they have parents evening and on Friday my daughter has to return for more blood tests so will go with her to 'hold Zack'. As she has to fast beforehand will no doubt go for 'pick-me-up' afterwards.  On Saturday I am going for a day out with a friend (coach trip to Canterbury (neither of us drive!!)) so  am being kept busy.

Hope you and MrsB are keeping okay and that the 'owl family' is 'turning' out well. Speak soon.  Jules x

Hi Jules,
You are keeping busy and that is good.  Had a good time at the wedding last Friday and having a great time with the family.  I laugh so much tears are running down my face.
We had the grandkids sleep over last night and I was so greatful for 3 extra pairs of hands ( first time both of them were here together).  Another sleepover planned for next Tues.  The family leave the following Friday.
Extra gardening being accomplished.   Babysitting is such a joy isn't it?  It certainly makes me laugh.  Mum and the sisters are doing well, mum is so mentally quick and with it.
On Friday we are off to Adelaide museum.  Hubby took her there on a previous visit and mum would like to revisit it.  We are gallivanting again on Sunday, so mum has plenty of energy and enthusiasm.  She does have a nap during the day, but at 88 that's to be expected.  Sis awaiting Email From doc re results and we know how worrying that can be.  In the meantime we are having lots of laughs.
Did you get out into the garden today?
Anyway must head off to bed now.
Love and best wishes,
Kathy x
 

Hi Kathy

So pleased to see your post here and that you enjoyed the wedding and that the time  you are spending with Mum and sis is giving you plenty to laugh about. There is a thread on the forum called Laughter is the best Medicine and I have to agree.  Your Mum is amazing at 88 and its great that you are able to be out and about whilst they are with you and probably good that your sister has you all to help keep her mind from wandering too much for the upcoming doctors' call/appointments.

I am supposed to be eating healthy as have to have re-test for cholesterol level next month but am not finding it easy shelving the comfort food for the 'good stuff' ha ha. The day usually starts well but the evening it goes to pot - need to find some willpower!

Beautiful here today and so yes once I got in from work I  planted up four large containers  in the front garden so mission accomplished for the time being.  Have miniature tulips in flower and also the quince and forsythia are both breaking bud - so good to have some colour back in the garden.

Well, off to make a cuppa and put my feet up for a while as no doubt will be kept on my toes (hide and seek a current favourite) with the grandchildren when I babysit after I finish work tomorrow -mind you the toddler is still crawling quicker than he can walk and being a cheeky little devil (learnt from his older brother!!).

Enjoy the rest of your time whilst your family is with you and look forward to chatting again soon. Sending hugs  Jules xxx

Hi Kathy

So pleased to see your post here and that you enjoyed the wedding and that the time  you are spending with Mum and sis is giving you plenty to laugh about. There is a thread on the forum called Laughter is the best Medicine and I have to agree.  Your Mum is amazing at 88 and its great that you are able to be out and about whilst they are with you and probably good that your sister has you all to help keep her mind from wandering too much for the upcoming doctors' call/appointments.

I am supposed to be eating healthy as have to have re-test for cholesterol level next month but am not finding it easy shelving the comfort food for the 'good stuff' ha ha. The day usually starts well but the evening it goes to pot - need to find some willpower!

Beautiful here today and so yes once I got in from work I  planted up four large containers  in the front garden so mission accomplished for the time being.  Have miniature tulips in flower and also the quince and forsythia are both breaking bud - so good to have some colour back in the garden.

Well, off to make a cuppa and put my feet up for a while as no doubt will be kept on my toes (hide and seek a current favourite) with the grandchildren when I babysit after I finish work tomorrow -mind you the toddler is still crawling quicker than he can walk and being a cheeky little devil (learnt from his older brother!!).

Enjoy the rest of your time whilst your family is with you and look forward to chatting again soon. Sending hugs  Jules xxx