Hi Jules, didn't go out tdy, relaxing in as much as minimal physical effort required. Fell asleep on sofa at 10 pm (was my bed when hubby had hospital bed in sitting room so dear to my heart), slept till 2 am when meandered off to big bed and slept till 10 am so reckon sleep was needed. Had electrician out to quote for ac in spare room in prep for visitors and mate dropped in to colour my hair, so was a good day. Have requested flood light out back and sensor light in driveway and out front in preparation for wintertime. Have invited lady up street who lives with her kids (widowed also) to drop in tomorrow avo which she will. We often wave and chat when walking dog. Think she was pleased when I knocked on door and asked daughter if mum could come and play tomorrow. ( I do have wicked sense of humour). Tomorrow is planned to be another veg out day with remedial massage plus chiro booked plus supermarket visit. Will also get bp checked so will need to eat before leaving the house, something I do neglect to do. Have had a few howls but all good. If I didn't there would be something wrong. Feel contented here most of the time but only feel truly happy when with the grandkids.. Thank YOU for listening to my ramblings Jules. Your friendship is much appreciated honey. Kathy xxx
Dearest Jules, we have formulated a small group of pm people, bit naughty but what the heck. If you want to email Annabel at enquiries@greenbarncottages.co.uk and advise who you would like to have your email address she will pass on if she has their details. I guess Annabel from her experiences/ knowledge can work out who are genuine. Thank god for her. Cheers honey. Xx
Just rambled a load, then computer 'lost it' grrrrrrrrrrrrrr. Anyway like you fell asleep in front of tv yesterday for around an hour (used to be hubby's seat) and then had yet another disturbed night. Never mind am sure the body will make up for it eventually. Just when you wake up there is a lot to think about/plan.
Hope your hand of friendship delivered to your neighbour leads to more coffee get togethers. I have a few really good mates so continued to socialise. Will miss my night out this Friday as am childminding overnight at my daughters whilst they attend wedding celebrations. Zack had a new tooth appear today (after a very sleepless night) so fingers crossed he will sleep through. He and his brother (6) are usually tucked up and asleep by 7pm so will be interesting to see their reaction to me sleeping over (they are not used to me going there as any sleepovers are usually at mine).
Thanks for info for Annabel and will probably follow this up in due course. She may even get some bookings at the cottages now that she has her e mail on my thread.
Have a relaxing weekend and as the weather sounds hot hot hot I think chilled wine with fav cheese/biscuits will be the best way to 'veg' out. Take care virtual buddy. Jules x
Cant believe you have allready completed you first week back at work. I bet you wont mind missing your usual Friday night out as you will be looking after your grandchildren tonight. It's great that you have such a close bond with them for I am convinced that grandparents have a big impact on young peoples lives and help shape the people they become. Sometimes I feel they take more notice of something grandparents say or do than they do with regard to their parents. And we can learn from them too for they do look at lofe through differnt eyes.
Glad you have got the paperwork underway both regarding your mothers situation and regarding the probate. One thing I hat is filling in forms for there are always questions where I cant figure out exactly what theire asking. Try to leave Mrs B to do this if possible; talk about passing the buck.
I have another meeting tommorow for a couple of hours si still keeping busy.
Take care Jules, have a happy time tonight, best wishes and hugs, Brian
Hope your meeting goes/went well and certainly keeping busy seems to be a key to coping!
Have just got home after sleepover at my daughters. The children were cuddly (lovely) and I listened to the eldest reading his school book (all about Mercedes cars!) and then he read two Dr Seuss books before we put Zack to bed and he was also in bed by 7. They have a great winding down routine. Eldest slept through till 7 am but teething pains disturbed the little one so was an up and down night and eventually asleep under granny's duvet. Thankfully it gave my daughter a chance to catch up on a decent sleep herself. They had a lovely evening at their friends' wedding reception but were home around 12.45 am.
Am now waiting to hear if the builder will be round to begin the wall build (I need to be in to give them access to the service road (its gated)). If not then I will crack on with necessary sorting out and then being taken out this evening by friends for a meal (always a bonus when I do not have to cook).
Definitely a few degrees warmer this morning (no frost or wind thankfully)but dont fancy doing the garden just yet. There are a lovely display of snowdrops and purple crocus in the front bed (between me and the neighbours) but can already see weeds GRRRR. Having to make do with bought flowers indoors at present to cheer me up. Right the hoover calls as does the paper shredder ha ha. Thank goodness for council recycling. Hope you and Mrs B have a good weekend. Hugs Jules x
Hi Jules, oh my giddy aunt, the description of your spring bulbs had me yearning for home, then quick reality check as to the cold weather.... Nah.
Great sleepover was good and you were able to comfort wee one. Teething is so bad for littlies.
Neighbour down the street come round late yesterday avo so we spent a few hours chatting was most enjoyable.
Big sis is having major issues with leg/hip/knee pain as yet undiagnosed referred to physio by doc 2 weeks ago.... Try heat.... Try cold packs.. Bleep bleep - because I am a lady haha
For goodness sake treat the cause not the symptoms.
If worst comes to worst she won't be able to fly and think mum and other sis will chose to stay with her. Her health is of my prime concern not my emotional needs. Sorry Jules, just biting my tongue re opinion of some medical people, Breathe in... Breathe out.... As always Jules thank you for being there and listening.. Big hugs Kathy xx
Sush a shame that your big sis is having problems with her hip/legs which the docs seem unable to solve (second opinion sounds like a good idea to me!). Just the fact that it could mean her having to miss family celebration due to 'possible incompetence' is enough to make your blood boil and you must be worried for her too - not something you need right now either. Think if it was me I would take myself to A&E *(in agony) and see if they could diagnose the problem but no doubt easier said than done.Will hope for the best that it can be sorted in time for all the family peace.
Glad you got together with your enighbour - always nice to have new friends to share a cuppa with.
I jumped another hurdle on this new 'journey for one' yesterday as I went out for a meal to local Indian restaurant with four very good friends. It was with mixed emotions as you can imagine but came through it and the company and the food was very good. Hubby loved a good curry and before his illness took hold we were regular restaurant goers (never been much good at replicating a good Indian meal at home ha ha).
Beautiful bright sunny crisp day today so will be off out shortly for my Sunday stroll. Its about one and a half miles to local garden centre (also has a indoor gift/plant section and cafe). Its a good place for quirky gifts and pretty household bits so who knows, may make a purchase or two. This afternoon my son and other half are calling in along with their Westie so that may give me a break from the sorting and clearing (trying to do a little most days so its not too daunting) - think I may need a new shredder by the end of it all!
Well enough of my rambling; take care of yourself lovely lady. Sending hugs Jules x
Sorry I've not been in touch lately, but like you, I headed back to work last week and somehow, time seems to have disappeared!
Your Sunday stroll sounded lovely - I love a wander round a garden centre (and a the compulsory coffee and cake in the coffee shop!)
I hope you have a good week this week and don't work too hard!
I'm going to sign off and post this as the forum is playing up (seems to be a regular occurance just lately! - never known so many glitches!) I do seem to be able to write in paragraphs now though - always a silver lining haha!
Glad you have been able to get back to work; it does help having the pattern of routine again and am sure you are being well supported and they are delighted to see you there too. If your school is the same as round this way, next week is half term (I think on my days off I will be having fun with daughter and grandkids).
Its pretty weird, having just returned from bereavement leave I have 'holiday' to use up prior to 1st April and so am 'lady of leisure' again last week in Feb/first week March. Is is too much to hope for that the weather may be a little warmer and I may be able to spend time outside (unfortunately builder did not turn up to do back wall so need to get new quotes but hope this will be sorted soon as I can then feel the urge to get tidying- (overgrown bottom of garden is my security blanket at present ha ha).
The children and I are attending a service for hubby on Thursday and am hoping this will continue the healing process of our loss.
Regarding you and your children attending a service, reminded me of when my mother passed away. I recieved an invite to attend a memorial service run by a hospice that my mother had attended. I have to admit I umed and arred but eventually decided to go. I was very glad I did in the end. There were about 25 to 30 families there and it was a very moving evening. I had to drive about 15 mile to get there. The service wasnt too churcified but was very nice way to remember our loved ones.
I hope your evening is as nice as mine was. Take care best wishes and kind thoughts being sent your way, Brian.
