relationships

I'm 28 and been diagnosed with lymphoma. Just met a great guy but wondering how long before I tell him as I haven't started treatment yet and how do I tell him? Been in a few relationships since 1st diagnoses ( 5years ago on 3rd one) but every time I told a guy it's not one down well and relationships ended even when I was in remission a guy I met walked away after saying he wanted a normal girl really knocked my confidence 

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  • Hi Sara and Katiez,

    I hope you dont mind a shared reply but I am disgusted to read what how your partners have reacted. At a time when you need help and support to do this to you is disgracful and I wouldnt even call them men. The words I would use would be banned on this forum. I would just say, I know several men whos wives/partners are ill and they do all they can for them so not all m,en are like this.

    I hope you both find that someone special who treats you properly. Sending kind thoughts your way, Brian.

  • I'm so sorry sara28 I can't really put on here what I really think . You don't need anyone like that constrained on getting you self well I hope you got support from you family and friends that you not on own. You always got support on here. Silmer situation happen to me I was in my 20 I was with someone for 8 years I had to have op to remove cyst I remember coming out the op and the doctor told me it's not cancer but you  have got endometriosis when the dr told me if you thinking about children you should try straight away . When I went home things changed he left me. Then few years went and I went out on Boxing Day it was out blue I met this man he was older me we talked 15 years later and I'm still with him I had 2 other  big op back and for to hospital and he stuck with me he always new I wanted baby and I'm so blessed I got 10 month old baby boy . What I'm trying to say you will find happiness at the moment you been unlucky one day out of the blue you will meet someone who will love you for you and will stick with you no matter what. Hope this help. If you need chat I'm here if you want take care .