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I'm 28 and been diagnosed with lymphoma. Just met a great guy but wondering how long before I tell him as I haven't started treatment yet and how do I tell him? Been in a few relationships since 1st diagnoses ( 5years ago on 3rd one) but every time I told a guy it's not one down well and relationships ended even when I was in remission a guy I met walked away after saying he wanted a normal girl really knocked my confidence 

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  • Just to fill you all in the guy decided not to stick around and walked out when I told him sayin that and I quite "I ain't being stuck with no invalid find me when your better"

     

  • I'm so sorry sara28 I can't really put on here what I really think . You don't need anyone like that constrained on getting you self well I hope you got support from you family and friends that you not on own. You always got support on here. Silmer situation happen to me I was in my 20 I was with someone for 8 years I had to have op to remove cyst I remember coming out the op and the doctor told me it's not cancer but you  have got endometriosis when the dr told me if you thinking about children you should try straight away . When I went home things changed he left me. Then few years went and I went out on Boxing Day it was out blue I met this man he was older me we talked 15 years later and I'm still with him I had 2 other  big op back and for to hospital and he stuck with me he always new I wanted baby and I'm so blessed I got 10 month old baby boy . What I'm trying to say you will find happiness at the moment you been unlucky one day out of the blue you will meet someone who will love you for you and will stick with you no matter what. Hope this help. If you need chat I'm here if you want take care . 

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  • I'm so sorry sara28 I can't really put on here what I really think . You don't need anyone like that constrained on getting you self well I hope you got support from you family and friends that you not on own. You always got support on here. Silmer situation happen to me I was in my 20 I was with someone for 8 years I had to have op to remove cyst I remember coming out the op and the doctor told me it's not cancer but you  have got endometriosis when the dr told me if you thinking about children you should try straight away . When I went home things changed he left me. Then few years went and I went out on Boxing Day it was out blue I met this man he was older me we talked 15 years later and I'm still with him I had 2 other  big op back and for to hospital and he stuck with me he always new I wanted baby and I'm so blessed I got 10 month old baby boy . What I'm trying to say you will find happiness at the moment you been unlucky one day out of the blue you will meet someone who will love you for you and will stick with you no matter what. Hope this help. If you need chat I'm here if you want take care . 

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