I've sent you a friend request x

Yes I'm on hormone inhibitors only. I will check out some groups close to me. Where did you send the friend request? I can't see it? Thank you xx

Hi I've just read your post you really do not need this now I haven't got breast cancer but have had a few problems with my breast and come on here for a bit of support the people on here are great so you've come to the best place for support my heart goes out to you tell him if he's got nothing good to say to you then to not even bother if anything I think what you're going through will make you stronger and see him for what he is 

Thank you for your kind words Wolvesgirl. I really need support as was close to giving up. X

Thank you Paulus will do 

Hi Autumn hope u don't mind my opinion. From our side it looks like your doing all the giving and he's doing all the taking you need someone who will help and support you if things get rough. Your life could be better and easier with out him. 

Hope I'm not upsetting you with what I've said.

P.s i had to retire to look after my wife she needs 24 /7 care she has Alzheimers and parkinsons. I'm the one with cancer been on palliative care since February 2016. We work together a partnership works both ways..

Billy 

Hi Billy

Thank you for your message and no you haven't upset me at all. Because I don't have family to "look out for me", I find it helpful getting others views. I now realise that it's all abnormal what's happening here in my life. Like I said,  I almost gave up fighting and even mentally prepared myself to die. 

I'm so sorry to hear about you and your wife. Hope you are looking after yourself too? X

Hi hun. I can sorta relate 2what you are going through ......I got diagnosed with breast cancer in November and had surgery in December and am currently going for radiotherapy. In my partners eyes I am being mardy and cus I've had surgery he said it's gone and I'm causing a fuss and need to pull myself together. To be honest I'm still struggling to cope with everything and often cry myself 2sleep ..... he been complaining over weekend that he got toothache and in so much pain .....I wish all I got was toothache !!!! .....I love him to bits but after all I've been through and still going through without him being there for me (not even been to any appointments with me or asked how got on) I'm starting to ask myself "why" x

Hi shazzylou, i hate to say it but a partnership is if one needs support or help the other is their to do whatever is needed, not just to moan about things.

Hope treatment is going well and you get things sorted out which ever way you think best. Good luck and best wishes for the future. 

Billy