Hello friends. I was told on Tuesday that the cancer that had been sorted (it seemed) in my bladder had now spread. You will all understand the brick in the head feeling that gave me and my husband! It is now Friday morning and we'ree still in shock. Kepp bursting into tears massive feelng of all this being unreal. Went to see the oncology doctor who was actually very encouraging. Told us not to worry about time scales but to be as positive as possible. Go to sleep thinking of it, waking up thinking of it. Due to start Chemo in next few weeks. I would value any encouragung words. So need to hear them. Thank you
