The good and the bad

Hi peeps

I have recently been diagnosed with breast cancer. Taking the excellent advice on this website I pretty much started by taking it one day at a time. This does indeed help. 

I thought to share the good and the bad and would love to hear anyone else's should they wish to share.

Today I had both a good and a bad moment. I received 2 letters in the post.

The first was from the hosp confirming my op date (my bad moment) cos my stomach dropped and I had that now familiar feeling of anxiousness take hold for a moment but shook it off cos I know it is needed. 

The good - my 2nd letter - as if... a tax rebate - boom  . Not half put a much needed smile on my face . Reckon a my treat family meal is in order.

Eeee it's the little things ain't it. 

Take care peeps 

Sandra x ️X

 

  • Ah it’s a brill film... Hugh jackman mmmm;-)

    that program rings a bell Chrissie... not sure if watched it or if it’s in my watch list lol.

    yup lots of time t kill post op nd during radiotherapy too:-) x

  • New suggestion for TV programme to watch called Sirens about mermaids with attitude! Lol 

  • Just checked Chrissie... yup your recommendation is in my t watch list...so is sirens warrior :-)

    no bad today:-)

    the good- what a lovely day weather wise. Bit of time with family then food, wine nd book in garden... there may have been a lil nana nap ;-)

    The forecast for the next few days is looking good. It’s a bh weekend. To all going through this disease, newly diagnosed or waiting on results.... try and look on this long weekend as all things hospital downtime. Hold your family close and try to enjoy - embrace the chance to spend some quality time with friends, family or even just you time. 

    Have as good a weekend as you can x

  • Well im having a glass of proseco now. I'm going to a family bbq tomorrow.

    Don't know if you all watched season 1 of the handmade tale but 2nd season is starting soon channel 4. I got so hooked on this. Looming forward to the new season.

  • Have a lovely weekend all! Yep I loved Handmaid's Tale too.

    Getting my routes done tomorrow. 

  • Go u girl..mmm proseco yum:-) hope things are going well for u nd yours lass :-) is partner on the mend? Yessss loved handmaidens tale didn’t know about s2 so... into the watch list it doth go:-)

    yr man will b sitting up paying attention warrior- new sparkly shoes, hair done ...yup u better believe it :-) ;-)

    It’s early.. no bad

    the good:- About t get up - swimming then daughters for coffee then garden day with wine nd book planed....chillaxing order of the day today. 

    Have as good a day as u can peeps x

  • Morning!!!!

    Today I am going to have a good day....i am determined.

    Partners leg is still in plaster. I see the oncologist Wednesday and he sees his consultant Thursday. Getting bored of hospitals now lol

    Wine in the garden...sounds lovely. I can't even get out in mine as it's not had it's first cut done yet. With both of us out of action it's having yo wait....might have to consider getting someone in to do it or it will be autumn before we get anywhere with it lol.

    Have a great day everyone x

  • Hay rilley... That's the funniest pic (avitar) I've ever seen ... It's deffenatly my smile for the day ... And so early too ... 

    Good ....Happy week end peeps ... Picture you all in the garden drinking pims (or any other well known tipple) in the sunshine ... 

    Bad .... Oh well house work is calling me ...  ; (( . Lol. X

  • Go get em girl :-)

    I am now in garden got wine...about t read book hmmm.

    hey if the sun is shining nd u want fresh air don’t give a toss about how garden looks... just u seeing it anyway. Once the tipple of the day kicks in u will just point nd laugh at it anyway:-) 

    face ya chairs t best angle nd.... drop in seat lol.  X

  • Best I’ve done today housework wise is put washload in but not even pegged it out yet lol... I have been for some food shopping too. 

    In garden now so rest of housework on hold. 

    Love rileyroos duck but also miss her lasagna avatar- makes me drool lol.

    whats Rileyroo nd jbains got planned for today... please say basking in the sun :-) x