The good and the bad

Hi peeps

I have recently been diagnosed with breast cancer. Taking the excellent advice on this website I pretty much started by taking it one day at a time. This does indeed help. 

I thought to share the good and the bad and would love to hear anyone else's should they wish to share.

Today I had both a good and a bad moment. I received 2 letters in the post.

The first was from the hosp confirming my op date (my bad moment) cos my stomach dropped and I had that now familiar feeling of anxiousness take hold for a moment but shook it off cos I know it is needed. 

The good - my 2nd letter - as if... a tax rebate - boom  . Not half put a much needed smile on my face . Reckon a my treat family meal is in order.

Eeee it's the little things ain't it. 

Take care peeps 

Sandra x ️X

 

  • Daughter had that, started at eightand lasted until she was thirteen. 

  • Aw bless. It’s awful  just come on in the last couple of days. It’s quite unusual- dr brought others in to see it nd took photos. 

    Tbh if she is like her sister it won’t bother her too much but it looks really bad. Her toes nd fingers are nearly doubling  in size if comes up on them:-(

    really hoping she grows out of it ( apparently it’s unusual for them to grow out of it though so fingers crossed). X

     

  • Hi Sandra... bless her ... my nieces lil one just got scarlet fever ...all these little ones poorly over the Easter brake ... bet they still manage a choc egg or two ... let's hope yr lil one grows out of it too ... sounds really painfull .. at least she can have lots of "nanny time"  

    Like your good and not so good theme ... you've got a really lovely thread going here ...

    Nikki... keep holding on ... and sleeping can be your bodies way of telling you to slow down so enjoy the rest ... and may all your dreams be nice ones .... chrisie

  • Hi there Cornishpasty  ... not looked on here for awhile. . ... as knew Sandra and jolomine was looking after you all ... but just wanted to say will be thinking of you over the next few weeks ... i know its a lot of highs and lows ... its not a bad thing to have a few tears sometimes ... we all get them days .. but you got the boxing gloves on, ready to take him all the way down this journey of ours ... I've got to have a few little lumps out under scar around same time ... we can do this xx

    It really does help ... it's like standing up to the bully .... I'm really proud of you ... you go girl ...

    Will pop back every so often for updates ... big hug Chrissie

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    Hi Nikki,

    I just wondered if your iron tablets are beginning to kick in yet?

    Regards,

    Jolamine xx

  • Thanks Chris:-)

    bless hope yr lil one is feeling better soon too. Scarlet fever is doing the rounds here too at nursery nd school as is chicken pox. It’s awful when they r poorly isn’t it.

    no bad today:-)

    good:- it’s Easter weekend... happy Easter everyone. Hope that you enjoy it as best u can.

    Family meet nd eat later... fish nd chips... good times x

  • Morning peeps 

    no bad today:-)

    good:- Been swimming. Done shops. Cakes baked. Nd it’s only just after 11 am :-) heading t Toby Carvery for lunch the maybe a nana nap cos babysitting tonight :-) x

  • Earl Grey tea rooms in York waiting for brekkie, full english. Special treat then home to finish decorating! Ying and Yang!

  • Oh how fabulous - go u girl. You enjoy every min u deserve it :-) x

  • Hi Chrissy

    How do you keep doing it again and again?

    I had a dark day yesterday (sounds a bit dramatic as I'm stage 1). I sat and spoke with my partner about practicalities if things get worse over time. He was really not wanting the conversation but I am such a practical person that I can't settle without having plans in place to ensure he and my 8 year old will be ok. As such I'm thinking of moving some money around for a worse case scenario fund. Today I'm questioning myself as this doesnt feel like im being optimistic, positive and strong....which is what I want to be. What a ride this is huh!