hi i too would like to talk about breast cancer.

hi im 36 mother of 3 n diagnosed dec 23. ive had 2 ops n 5 of 6 chemo n finding it very hard at mo. feel so peed off n cant get rid of that feeling. would love to chat. x

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  • Hayo......i wish i had a magic wand...but send you all the very bestest of best things!

    I have just joined on the eve of finding out if i have breast cancer, i am in hospital tomorrow for all the usual test and results!

    I am 42...i think if i remember rightly! mooma of 2 home grown and one gifted children.

    I have a family history of cancers the most likely to affect me i am lead to believe is that my late father had a double mastectomy at 54....so feel  like im on a tight rope!

    im sorry i dont understand what you meant by the level of ur cancer, im still looking up the whats if's on line there fore very naive, im sorry

    hopeing the peed off is short lived for you and crack open a smile or two soon xx

    Tiggs x

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  • Hayo......i wish i had a magic wand...but send you all the very bestest of best things!

    I have just joined on the eve of finding out if i have breast cancer, i am in hospital tomorrow for all the usual test and results!

    I am 42...i think if i remember rightly! mooma of 2 home grown and one gifted children.

    I have a family history of cancers the most likely to affect me i am lead to believe is that my late father had a double mastectomy at 54....so feel  like im on a tight rope!

    im sorry i dont understand what you meant by the level of ur cancer, im still looking up the whats if's on line there fore very naive, im sorry

    hopeing the peed off is short lived for you and crack open a smile or two soon xx

    Tiggs x

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  • Tiggs

    welcome to our family.... sorry you have to join us in such sad circumstances.

    The  ladies don't mean to ignore you honey, but as you can tell from the  post and the replies.... a dear friend to us all has taken very ill with  her cancer progressing and it has devastated us all..... but Rose would  kick our bums if she found out we had left anybody floundering.... So  please, let us help you.

    Have you had your results yet?

    I  got diagnosed at 43 and had a double mastectomy.... there are lots of  ladies on here in varying different stages of varying different cancers,  so what ever your question, so matter how silly you think it sounds....  please ask because there is bound to be someone on here that can (and  will) help you.

    I had no family history of cancer.... but i suppose there has to be a first (this is one trend I didn't want to start)

    I  myself have 2 children, one homegrown and one gifted.... on here I have  learnt not to worry about them losing their mum, but to use them as my  reason to carry on and fight this terrible disease.

    One  thing I would advise is that you stop researching your cancer... grades  etc... on the internet.... You will just scare yourself to death....  find one good site and stick to it.. I personally used this site and the  information offered in the other sections of this site... there is also a bit on here that gives you the chance to talk to the moderators... they are all trained cancer nurses (I think) but I do know they do have the information you need.

    Also I would suggest you write down any questions you have and take them with you to your next appointment because when you hear that you have cancer and what they are going to do about it.... quite often your mind goes blank and all the questions you had are forgotten.

    Please come on here often and let us know how things are progressing

    Take care honey,

    Love always

    Caz xxxxxxxxxx