hi im 36 mother of 3 n diagnosed dec 23. ive had 2 ops n 5 of 6 chemo n finding it very hard at mo. feel so peed off n cant get rid of that feeling. would love to chat. x
Sorry you need to be here but welcome.You are at the worse stage now,the waiting and thinking all sorts.try to keep busy and get out and about as much as possible and remember the outcome will be the same if you worry or not. I was told to set aside 10 mins twice a day to worry and make myself refuse to worry outside those times.Sounds hard but it does work.
Good to see you giving advice n doing what you do best! I know you're not your best but hope you are managing ok.
I'm always on my iPod now n I miss my computer! It's a bit heavy but I like the bigger screen. Now I pick up the pod, have a quick look n put it down again. I can't write a proper message cos I can't see what I've wrote! Blame my mum! She bought it for my birthday. It's really interfered with cancer chat. Don't like that!
So anyway, hope you are all well ish ladies? I'm gonna be honest. Ive found a lump n got app on wed. Too scared to tell hub or parents cos I know how they will feel! I am ok I don't think it's anything to worry about but scared to mention it! Only problem is, funding has finished for charly the day before. Which makes it difficult to disappear to an app without anybody knowing. N my mum is starting back at work next week! What do I do?? Ideas are welcome n appreciated!
Oh blinking heck Lonie,not more stress for you !!!!I am keeping everything crossed for you my lovely girl .Wonderful timing with Charly.I didnt tell Ricky about my second appt either but he turned up outside work as he said he knew something was going on and I must admit I was glad he was there.We must think how we would feel if they kept something from us so you might have to let him know.I know he has been wonderful through your awful time.
I hope this is a quick fix for you ,you have had more hassle than anyone I know and been such a trooper through it all.
I hope they turn out to be nothing but little bits of tissue of non importance, however I know how much we all worry about every lump, bump or pain....as you know I have had the most severe pain in my backside that I was sure there must be a tumour there the size of a melon however the MRI scan showed neither a cancerous growth or an abcess just some expected scar tissue...relief was not the word.
I do hope and pray that you have similar news and that it turns out to be nothing at all.
I hope they turn out to be nothing but little bits of tissue of non importance, however I know how much we all worry about every lump, bump or pain....as you know I have had the most severe pain in my backside that I was sure there must be a tumour there the size of a melon however the MRI scan showed neither a cancerous growth or an abcess just some expected scar tissue...relief was not the word.
I do hope and pray that you have similar news and that it turns out to be nothing at all.
Tony, Im so glad, there isnt anything sinister there, hopefully you can keep the mpain under control and be pain free. Leonie, Nina, Rose and all the other girls, hope everything is ok, lotsa love x
