hi im 36 mother of 3 n diagnosed dec 23. ive had 2 ops n 5 of 6 chemo n finding it very hard at mo. feel so peed off n cant get rid of that feeling. would love to chat. x
I went to the breast clinic on monday for biopsy results as there was calcium in my breast. the doctor told me I had nothing to worry about but it turns out there were cancer cells in the biopsy but no lump.I had only gone becaus of a large lump wich was a non cancerous cyst. The mri scan on the breast is for them to find out if they can see anything as the mamogram and ultrasound found nothing. I have been back into work for two days, I am a nursery nurse It has helped being busy at work. i am trying to be normal, everyone at work knows, but it is my daughters 13th birthday on sat, I havnt told her yet as I have nothing concrete to tell her, I am trying not to break down, spent the first 2 days doing that!!! My partner is fantastic , she is trying so hard to be strong for me. My heads all over the place and it feels so surreal...i'm 38 years old...I dont feel like I should be in this situation...I gues its normal to feel this way ?
Hi there Kez, sorry to hear you're going through this, but you need to keep strong and positive, no point int telling your daughter anything until you know for def, I really struggled to tell my girls and they are 23 and 21, but they were great and nowadays so many people from tv, sally from corrie, kylie etc, have all beaten this horrible disease, keep posting, one of us in usually on here.
Leonie, fingers crossed this lump is nothing, but babe if youre really stuck for someone to watch Charly maybe you should tell Jon, he may be upset if he finds out later, he's been brilliant throughout all this, so Im sure he will be just as strong, let me know how you get on, wish I lived nearer i would watch charly for you, Rose and the rest of you gals and Tony, hope you are all well, Im feeling good at the mo, have my first mammogram at end of month since all my treatment xxx
Hey Hun glad things are going well. I don't want to worry him col. Poor sod has been through enough n I'm sure it is ok! I'm alright but don't think he will be til results! Would rather say I was going for?? Something he wouldn't question til I knew something, if you understand?! Love you xxxx
Hey Hun glad things are going well. I don't want to worry him col. Poor sod has been through enough n I'm sure it is ok! I'm alright but don't think he will be til results! Would rather say I was going for?? Something he wouldn't question til I knew something, if you understand?! Love you xxxx
i have another lump too tried ignoring it then told drs they said probably alright so I tried to ignore again !I go back to work tues having party 4th june to celebrate its all over !!*** it better be !! hxxxaving mamagram on tuesday (same day back at work (I too havent told hubby etc they couldnt cope xx sure it will b fine .but I really cant sleep went to dr today got some pillls we will see xxbabe I know how u feel xxlove hugs xxxx
Oh Nina I remember when we met up you said about your lump! Glad you spoke to the doctor regarding it. Really hope all is well too. Mine is little n I'm not that bothered at all but still daren't mention it! Just need an excuse to get away for a couple of hours while I need babysitter too! ??? Love you Hun n good luck for work babe! Xxx
Oh Nina Im so glad you told your husband and Im so relieved for those of you who have had good results, I must say I love your picture infact you have spurred me on to update mine, hair is a bit tatty at the moment, dont really know what to do with it but hey ho at least its there anyway a truly warm welcome to the new people my thoughts are with you through this difficult time but if I can do no more than reassure you that you will get through this and there is light at the end of the tunnel by reading through my past posts you will see my journey has been a tricky one much like many of these wonderful ladies and gentlemen on here but whilst my journey is far from over I feel like I can take in a bit of the scenery again Im feeling much better these days and my husband and I plan to have a much needed holiday in September, so much love to you all I read all your posts constantly and caroline your constantly in my prayers much love always lee xx
Lee your hair is great so glam mine just seems to b getting thicker looks bit like a carpet !!iam hoping it will go a bit flatter as u say iam not sure what to do with it i think it probably needs a cut feels weird . It is also multi coloured but every time i seem to decide to get a colour people say they like it !!confused!! I am back to work phased return it ok but knackering and I need to sort out few bits re annual leave and pay (which is a stress i could do without )but its ok .My mum had hip revision op yesterday ,she has lots health probs so we were all worried (and she o far away in Jersey ) but my brothers r there, Anyway it seems to have gone well I have spoken to her so so far so good .Both my girls doing exams (GCSE and 1st yera uni vet med ) so be glad when they are finished .
just thought Id post a pic of me doing the race for life today, weather stayed fine in the morning and took my dog with me Bella a little staffie....she got more cheers than I did lol anyway managed to complete the circuit in 38 mins and 24 secs... not too bad hey, next year I want to win .
Hi Lee, well done you! I also done race for life in Glasgow today, but I walked it, power walked, took me 50 mins, I'll upload some pics lata. Ps you're looking fab girl xx
Well done to you too, I shall look forward to seeing the pics, I keep up to date with how your doing and am glad to see your doing so well, I do look forward to one day meeting you and the other wonderful ladies and gents who have helped me to get where I am today.
Firstly well done u lot race for life want to do one but not sure my knee will allow it .did do it couple years ago .
My thank fec its over party was fantastic everyone was wonderful . we raised a£460 iam gonna donate half to this cancer chat as it has helped me so much ,and have met ssuch fantastic friends .the other half going to local cancer charity.
but down to earth with bump my best friend had recall from routine mammogram (shes 49) looks like its ca breast awaiting biopsy results !!nightmare again she due to start new high powered job monday, she has noo husband/kids lives alone .my daughter is staying with her at the min while she works at zoo (she lives about 1and half hours away !!they have supported each other but **** it brings it all back .she is such a lovely person this disease is so s*** now i really know how all my friends felt xxxx
Hi Peeps Sorry I havnt been on for a while Just this clot seems to be taken over my body That with chemo has made me very tired..
Good news for me is Yesterday saw the end of my chemo Operation on the 14th july. Looks like the lymph gland will not be having to be taken away and Also Surgeon said he dosnt think I ll need a masectomy So apart from the efeects of chemo etc All is looking better for me...
Good luch to al those who are still going thro this
