Hi love I went through something similar only my partner was the lucky one after the operation for tongue cancer but spread they managed to operate and remove it when he came home he would as you sa not talk to me go to bed and stay their life at home wasn't to good at all it was as if he blamed me at the same time my poor mum was diagnosed with cervical cancer but it was to far gone for anythng to help her she died two weeks later I began to recent him but kept it inside he was treating me like this and my mum passed away in the end I went the doctor and just let it all out how I felt hw angry I felt that this man I was helping doing everything for was treating me as if I wasn't their or had feeling and needed someone to talk to the doctor put me on some antidepressants these did elp the next day I received a call from carer's UK and asked if I would like to sign up she done it over the phone she then referred me to my local council for help they could offer I was then offerd carer's come in and give him his feed as he had to be feed through a peg I use to even just meet a friend and have a coffee and a chat and honesty it helped I only done it every third week but I loked forward to it and me not being in the house for that 2 hours he said he missed me and became more appropriate so what you need to do is reach out their is help out their don't forgot you need t look after yourself as well stay strong love sending hugs ️ 

Thank you so much for the reply xxx

Thank you so much for the reply xxx