Hi. My husband has bladder cancer. We have a consultation on Friday with his consultant to see how to proceed. As we've talked it over together, we've decided that bladder removal is best. So far, we've coped with everything. But I'm feeling wiped out and angry more than upset. He had to have turbt 3 weeks ago and that's how we found out that the tumour was larger than expected. Hubby is upset, naturally, and has been fairly emotional. I'd like to know how other people cope with daily life whilst this is going on. I'm trying to keep everything as normal as possible - we both are retired - but it's stressful. I find that little things make me angry. Hubby tries to keep his emotions in check, but today he was upset.
