Bowel cancer

Hi - I’m newly diagnosed with bowel cancer but pleased to say it has not spread and I’m seeing my consultant tomorrow to be told what the treatment will be. I have a fear of surgery as we had a friend who died from an infection after a knee replacement I know I’m being irrational particularly as I have less concerns if I need chemo. I think my mind is working overtime at the moment! And I admit I’m scared. My husbands had a stroke and totally relies on me for his every day care.