Hi im not very good at explaining things but hope i can help .

People's attitude and feelings change when diagnosed alot of cancer patients call it the new normal ,alot of times it effects people around them as well .

i was diagnosed with prostate cancer gone to lymph nodes spine ribs pelvis and a lung,in Feb 2016 , palative care still having as normal life as possible , permanent hormone therapy and other meds. From being diagnosed to starting treatment, after various scans and biopsy was over three months.

im a carer for my wife, she has Alzheimer's and Parkinson's plus other problems .

i keep positive and sure even when struggling . Remember im living with my univited guest .

Billy