Hi im not very good at explaining things but hope i can help .

People's attitude and feelings change when diagnosed alot of cancer patients call it the new normal ,alot of times it effects people around them as well .

i was diagnosed with prostate cancer gone to lymph nodes spine ribs pelvis and a lung,in Feb 2016 , palative care still having as normal life as possible , permanent hormone therapy and other meds. From being diagnosed to starting treatment, after various scans and biopsy was over three months.

im a carer for my wife, she has Alzheimer's and Parkinson's plus other problems .

i keep positive and sure even when struggling . Remember im living with my univited guest .

Billy

Hi, I am 7 months post ileostomy reversal  which is OK overall, toilet a bit up and down,  but manageable. 

Am now awaiting scan results too, which is a most anxious time for sure. I would almost defy anyone not to go through the waiting time with ease of mind. My body aches and pains, with indigestion is due to the scanxiety hopefully.

It's tough, but we are fortunate to have got through several surgeries and living our lives. Good luck all with the future.