Waiting on breast biopsy results

Im waiting on breast biopsy results, i get them on monday, the waiting is just dreadful, sometimes your gut feeling tells you what you know but this time i just dont know! Anyone feel or felt the same?

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    Hi Karen,

    I am sorry to hear that it was a difficult appointment for you, but that's it all over, apart from another anxious wait.. You're bound to be low tonight, as well as sore, but it's onward and upwards from here. Try to keep yourself occupied, to help pass the time whilst you're waiting. It sounds as if there is still every chance that this could be benign - fingers crossed!

    Jolamine xx

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  • Hello ladies,

    i got results of my biopsies today and it is DCIS high grade. Really relieved it's at early stage but high grade is less good obviously.  Nurse kept reassuring me it's curable and I would get to see my son turn into a grumpy teenager but I know she can't be sure of that. 
     

    will go for mri and depending on outcome might need further investigations.  Operation is booked in for 14th October. Lumpectomy. ( I said I would be happy to do mastectomy but told but told not recommended as it hasn't spread and am still young..46.) then radio. 
     

    i am a single mum of a 4 year old and been through divorce over last 2 years.ex  Husband lives overseas.I work part time as a secondary school teacher. I relocated to UK end 2018 so life has been really tough these last few years. I'm lucky to have a sister living nearby and she has been tower of strength for me. 
     

    very frightened right now but trying to hold onto the good stats. They didn't tell me the size of the lump. I'm wondering if I can phone to ask? Also whether the timings seem good or whether it's worth considering paying to get this done privately. My breast care nurse said dates are good and they have enough time to investigate if anything shows up on the MRI (don't have date for that yet). She said it's safe and better to get stuff done with nhs. 
     

    I'm scared this thing could be growing and spreading all  the time - as doc said they only have the biopsies they took last week to go in atm. 
     

    glad to have this group and find some of you ladies got good news m. Thanks for reading! Any thoughts or suggestions are welcome x

     

  • Morning jolamine

    Ive not slept much the pain isnt too bad but that scan was horrible it was so long and you cant move an inch, i said to the dr so im a medical mystery just now then lol, I knew with mobdays results they werent near to be where they wanted to be, they did a lot of xrays and put in another marker so hopefully they have got close enough now so yes another anxious wait, hardly slept last night I'll sleep today though dreadful going through this experience

    Karen xx

  • Morning Roselamilli

    Welcome to the group its normally jolamine that does this bit (shes the mum of the group lol) jolamine puts everyones mind at rest with her knowledge and experience, and reassurance!!!!!

    Your going to be ok! They have caught it, you will get the op and be a new woman, and your little one will have his/her mum!!! Yeah it's all scary what we go through, been through a divorce myself and its not easy but you will get there! I joined the group last weekend and everyone is brilliant, as for the NHS nurses that we see they are amazing! Chin up hunni youll get through this you have everyone behind you here

    Karen xx

  • Hi Roselamilli,

    A very warm welcome to our forum.

     I'm sure that you're feeling pretty shell-shocked at the moment, but DCIS is about as good as it gets. It is eminently treatable. I was diagnosed with this 12 years ago. I has a second bout the following year and had a double mastectomy and, have never looked back. I still lead a busy and fulfilled life. At the time I was worried for my two teenage children. Since then I have seen them leave school, go to university, graduate, find gainful employment, marry and produce two beautiful granddaughters, who are the light of my life.

    Once you have had your MRI they should be able to tell you more about the size of your lump. You have been through a lot recently, but I am glad to hear that you have the support of your sister. We all need someone to confide in with situations such as this. As you know there are no guarantees with cance, but then there's no guarantee when we are crossing the road, yet we don't think twice about that. 

    It will be a great help to your future if you can remain positive about this. Breast cancer is one of the most treatable forms of cancer. Yours is in the early stages and, it is treatable. Hold on to these thoughts.

    Please keep in touch. We sre always here for you.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx

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    Hi Karen,

    This is certainly not an experience that anyone would want to go through. Hopefully, you are now closer to getting a conclusive answer. I am sorry to hear that you didn't sleep much last night and, hope that you have managed to catch up today. It's good to hear that your pain is bearable now.

    Just take it easy over the weekend.

    Jolamine xx

  • Hi jolamine

    You are so kind to everyone with your positivity and how much you know, a true inspiration to all of us, june listen to jolamine she knows what she is talking about and its all positive! Today has been a shock for june but she will get through this, you have all our support, we are all scared and its the unknown that does it! But we will come out the other end,  just thinking sports bras dont do much for you do they thank god i had a hoody and body warmer on i look like a boy lol (see june made you laugh) linda lusardi yesterday  little boy today  lol 

    Love to you all girls                                                          xxxxx

  • Hahaha u certainly made me laugh xxxx thankyou xxxxxx thinking if you xxx

    Hugs

    June  

  • Thinking about you for Tuesday June xx

  • Thankyou xxx do I ask them to scan collarbone and other breast too?? There is still a lump in those places xx

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    Hi June,

    Your scans will probably pick these areas up anyway, but no harm in asking, just to make sure.

     Jolamine xx