Hi,

I read your post and couldn't pass by without saying that I am thinking of you anf your family. I can understand that you are really between a rock and a hard place, trying to balance supporting your wife and son, whilst being there for your daughter. I am sure that her Granny will be spoiling her under the circumstances and, that your daughter will be happy, so long as you phone her every day and keeping in touch.

Unfortunately, if you spread yourself too thin on the ground at times like this, you will be the one to fall apart. Try to take things one day or even an hour at a time. Don't look too far in to the future, as this is too much to bear. Talk things through with your wife and see what she feels you should do with your daughter. I expect that she needs you at the hospital and, that you would never forgive yourself if something happened when you were away from the hospital.

It sometimes takes a life-shattering occurrence like this for us to find how strong we really are. You are stronger than you think and, provided that you can both support one another and keep communication channels open, you will come through this.

I sincerely hope that the chemo helps your son and wish you both the strength that you need to see this heart-breaking situation through.

Please keep in touch. We are always here for you and your wife.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

Hi,

I read your post and couldn't pass by without saying that I am thinking of you anf your family. I can understand that you are really between a rock and a hard place, trying to balance supporting your wife and son, whilst being there for your daughter. I am sure that her Granny will be spoiling her under the circumstances and, that your daughter will be happy, so long as you phone her every day and keeping in touch.

Unfortunately, if you spread yourself too thin on the ground at times like this, you will be the one to fall apart. Try to take things one day or even an hour at a time. Don't look too far in to the future, as this is too much to bear. Talk things through with your wife and see what she feels you should do with your daughter. I expect that she needs you at the hospital and, that you would never forgive yourself if something happened when you were away from the hospital.

It sometimes takes a life-shattering occurrence like this for us to find how strong we really are. You are stronger than you think and, provided that you can both support one another and keep communication channels open, you will come through this.

I sincerely hope that the chemo helps your son and wish you both the strength that you need to see this heart-breaking situation through.

Please keep in touch. We are always here for you and your wife.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx