Hello Emma666

I'm sorry to hear about your boyfriend's diagnosis and how he's struggling with the side effects of his treatment.

We have quite a few members here on the forum who have been through treatment for oral cancers and I know from reading their posts that it can take quite some time for things to settle. Can I suggest that you have a look for posts by [@RadioactiveRaz]‍ , [@Taff123]‍ , and [@Anchor1707]‍ . All these members have been through treatment for oral cancers and have described some of the problems that you've mentioned. They have all also written their own blogs about their journeys and I'm sure that you'll be able to find some advice and information in those stories. You might also like to have a look through some of the information on our website here. 

I'd also suggest that you give our team of nruses a call. They're available Monday to Friday from 9 am to 5 pm on 0808 800 4040 and I'm sure they will be able to give you some support and advice to try and help. 

Do get back in touch with your boyfriend's nurse specialist as well. It is their role to advise and support but they can only do this if they know that the problem hasn't been resolved. Give her a call as well. 

I hope some of this helps and that things begin to settle and heal soon. 

Best wishes, 
Jenn
Cancer Chat moderator 

Thank you x

Thank you x