Oh I do know what your going through, its unreal isn't it. I was her2+ grade 2  clear margins and no lymph nodes involved. My onco told me this is a pretty aggressive type and although everything looked good he advised chemo as belt and braces as he couldn't rule out a stray microscopic cell floating around. 

If you go ahead with chemo you can pretty much write the year off....but what I will say is the time passes quickly...I was just starting out this time time last year, now my hair is growing back thick and fast and life is returning to normal.....

chat to your family, does the onco advise chemo? It's a real difficult one love....I wish you well in your decision xx

My husband thinks I should do anything suggested but understands if I don't. 
I'm ER+ HER- which they said was good along with the clear nodes etc. I would still have radiotherapy, oestrogen blocking injections & tamoxifen, so I just don't know what to do. 
 

Well, the hormone inhibitors and injections ( herceptin)? Is very important...plus rads will defo blast the area good and proper.....chemo really would be belt and braces....added extra insurance if you like. But like you say, it's a big deal and not to be taken lightly, it's not like popping a pill and going to bed to sleep it off. In all honesty if it had been 50/50 for me I think I'd have opted out, but it wasn't and my onco made my mind up for me....I think your decision is way harder... ️ 

Good luck love x

Thanks x