Hi Mammyof5,

I noticed you haven't had a reply just yet and seeing as this is the first time you've tried to reach out, I wanted to offer you a very warm welcome to Cancer Chat and reassure you that your post has been seen.

I'm sorry you've been diagnosed with breast cancer and are anxiously waiting to find out what happens next. As so many of our members will be able to confirm just how difficult this period of limbo, so you are not alone and hopefully you will receive some support and advice from the community soon. 

If it would help to talk to someone about what you're going through, you can give our cancer nurses a call on 0808 800 4040, Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m. They're very insightful and will do all they can to support you whilst you wait.

Coping with a breast cancer diagnosis can be very tough but we're sending you all our strength and support and hope you won't have to wait too much longer for a treatment plan.

Kind regards,

Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

Hi. Oh, the waiting is the hardest part, I know. They are being careful, from the sound of it, and making sure they find everything. I understand trying to keep positive in front of other people, but it sounds as if it's taking a toll on you. My approach was to tell everyone from the start that I had breast cancer and that made it easier for my family, because they didn't have to make excuses when they were trying to deal with it. My daughter and husband could tell their friends and boss in case they needed help and support. It was easier for us to talk about it too. It's ok to reach out and talk to people. All the people on this forum came to talk, to ask questions, to know that they're not the only ones going through this. I hope it's not too long until you have that plan in place. Take care.

I'm that person too, so I understand. There were some darker thoughts I had too, that I felt I couldn't share with anyone else, but there are people here who understand and you can talk to. I'm glad you had the appointment and now you have things start to happen. Good luck and you're welcome.