Rare cancer- How to deal with the unknown/ scanxiety

I am newly diagnosed May 2025 with a rare sarcoma, I have been lucky in having an op to remove the tumour quickly , however the prognosis for this cancer is bleak if it has spread to lungs and I have lots of nodules and have a follow up scan in 3 weeks. I dont feel ill. I am still recovering from the major op and my mood ranges from having faint hope I will be OK for a while,  to thinking I need to be realistic and wind up my affairs now to make it easier for my family when I am gone (for those with this cancer when it has spread it seems there is no/limited treatment options and stats say an average of 9 months) Any advice on how people manage to stay focused on the here and now and not ponder on what is coming in the future?

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  • How not to ponder, I don't know. But I want to send my support. I had surgery 17 months ago to remove a retroperitoneal sarcoma. Never heard of a sarcoma before then. A few other things had to be removed too. I send my very best wishes.

  • Offline in reply to Mary.

    Thank you so much for replying, sorry it took me so long to respond. It is heartening to hear from someone else who has hard sarcoma (I find it  hard having such a rare cancer and all the uncertainties that comes with it) I sincerely wish you good health.

  • Offline in reply to LJI

    I am so glad you have returned. I can quite empathise with you. Have you had your scan? I had one in June and it was OK - great relief! I am due for a chest x-ray in September. I have multiple nodules. Apparently, they are quite common, even if one has never had this scary word.

  • Offline in reply to Mary.

    Hi, I have just had another CT scan, previous one showed multiple tiny nodules, hoping this is just my ‘normal’, I have to wait around 4-5weeks for results so I am trying to just forget about it, as I have worked it worrying won’t help! It has been such a whirlwind of scans, a major operation and I am just about to start 6 weeks of radiotherapy - I could just do with no more bad news or bombshells for a while…x

  • Offline in reply to LJI

    I understand about the whirlwind. I was diagnosed with retroperitoneal liposarcoma in October 2023 and had surgery to remove it the next month. The waiting for results can be so stressful as it gets nearer the time of results. Good luck with the radiotherapy.
    Keep writing here. I found that the people in this forum have given me tremendous support.

  • Offline in reply to LJI

    How is your  radiotherapy?

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