Hi I would like to ask I had a mastectomy Surgery 8 weeks ago I am going in this Friday to get my lymph nods removed from under armpit has anyone else had this
Hi, I had a mastectomy with diep flap reconstruction in October. I had 20 lymph nodes removed at the same time. I still do my exercises twice a day, as I want to avoid getting lymphedema. Hope all goes well with your surgery on Friday. Xx
I am sorry to hear that you are due to have a double mastectomy, but just wanted to assure you that it is a straightforward operation. It is quite common to combine these procedures together at the time of surgery. Have you got clothing for both day and night time which opens down the front? I found it much easier to have these, as it meant that I didn't have to raise my arms above my head to dress. It was also easier to show to doctors/nurses, than having to do a striptease!
I have had 2 bouts of breast cancer and 1 of pre-cancer, all within a year of each other. I had a Lumpectomy first time and a Double Mastectomy for the other bouts. I had lymph nodes removed both times. I was terrified before the surgery and surprisingly, found that the Mastectomies were much easier to cope with, than the Lumpectomy. Unfortunately, I was not a suitable candidate for reconstruction, due to other, non-cancerous related surgery. I still cope well with a number of assorted prostheses for different activities.
It sounds as if your date for surgery is fairly soon and I hope that it all goes well. Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on. We are always here for you.
You need never feel alone, now that you have found this site. There is always someone here to give you advice, support and the benefit of their experience with cancer.
Hi Marwoe, I am fully recovered since having my surgery, but I still do my exercises every day. I'm still waiting for my next surgery, reduction and uplift on my healthy boob. Was told in January, that surgery would be in April, but still waiting.
I'm struggling a little emotionally at the moment, as I lost my mum suddenly a couple of weeks ago, which has been difficult.
Try not to get too stressed about the surgery, just take your time with the recovery. Let ne know how you get on. Xx
Hi Marwoe, I am fully recovered since having my surgery, but I still do my exercises every day. I'm still waiting for my next surgery, reduction and uplift on my healthy boob. Was told in January, that surgery would be in April, but still waiting.
I'm struggling a little emotionally at the moment, as I lost my mum suddenly a couple of weeks ago, which has been difficult.
Try not to get too stressed about the surgery, just take your time with the recovery. Let ne know how you get on. Xx
I have just learnt that you lost your mum a few weeks ago and I have to say how sorry I am to hear this. Losing your mum leaves a big void in your life. It will take time to come to terms with your loss, but with a strong and supportive family like yours, I am sure that you'll help one another through.
My thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time.
It is always more difficult to cope with a sudden death. Does your dad live close to you? - unfortunately, he will probably be even more lost, when he returns to his own house. I am sure that you will be glad to get the funeral out of the way, as everything is a bit of a hiatus until that is over. Monday will indeed be a hard day for all of you, but you will get through it together.
I shall be thinking of you and please remember that I am always here if you want to talk.
Thanks Jolamine, you're so kind. Not sure dad will manage on his own, he is quite frail and mum did everything. Will have to look at the options, once the funeral is over. Dad suffers with anxiety, so he will be stressed whatever happens, which is fo sad. How are uou keeping?
I have been having long-term issues with my lumbar spine, which have been making it very difficult for me to walk or stand. I finally had an MRI early in April and got the results today - Considerable degeneration in spinal column with narrow and mis-shaped openings for the nerves coming out from the spinal column. No way to treat this other than by operation, but no guarantee that an operation would help, as there are too many discs and nerves involved. My discs are now rubbing on one another as there is no cushioning left between them. The specialist Spinal physio offered to send me to the pain clinic. I don't think that I could face any more medication and I already use Morphine patches and I have already tried all the clinics that she mentioned. However, she said that the door is always open in respect of a referral. Still, I am relieved that there is no tumour present, which was what I was beginning to suspect.
It has been a trying time with my hubby, who has had more Squamous cell carcinoma removed. HIs Dementia is progressing faster than we would want and he is falling a lot, He is also sleeping a lot and getting very confused at night.
I hope that you can manage to find a suitable option for your Dad, once the funeral is over. It's just one problem after another, isn't it?
Hi Jolamine, so sorry to hear that you are in so much pain. It must be difficult to decide whether to have an operation, especially if they can't guarantee the results. I'm sure that would also be difficult, with your husband suffering from dementia. It must be hard for you with your husband falling a lot, especially when you are in pain yourself.
It has been a difficult week for me, as my daughter is now in hospital. She is 20 weeks pregnant and some of her waters started leaking yesterday. It is such a worrying time. Xx
I hope that your daughter has been better since she was admitted to hospital and that everything has settled down for her - if it's not one thing it's another! You could certainly do without this additional stress and worry at the moment.
