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I'm Vickie , 37,  My Dad has lung and cancer in his back. He's my hero and I'm struggling coming to terms with things. My Dad retired in March to look after Mt Mum due to health issues and since his health has detirated.  Its not fair he worked 4 years over retirement , 60hrs a week as a bus driver for what????? I'm do angry,  heart broken and scared

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    Life isn’t fair.

    Nice people are just as likely to win the lottery or develop cancer as evil people.

    All you can do is love and support him as best as you can to make his life as happy and fulfilling as possible. It won’t be easy but it’s better than being angry and depressed. We all go through a process of anticipatory grieving but we need to balance that with being supportive. 

    Good luck

    Dave

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    Life isn’t fair.

    Nice people are just as likely to win the lottery or develop cancer as evil people.

    All you can do is love and support him as best as you can to make his life as happy and fulfilling as possible. It won’t be easy but it’s better than being angry and depressed. We all go through a process of anticipatory grieving but we need to balance that with being supportive. 

    Good luck

    Dave

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