Mum is dying of cancer

Hey, 

I'm struggling on which way to turn. My mum has been battling myeloma cancer for 5yrs. She has not been giving weeks to live. I just feel so numb. I am trying to keep things normal. I am also meant to be getting married on August but I just can't even think of that anymore. 
I know this might sound stupid but I feel like I'm grieving even though she is still here? 
Not even sure what I want out of writing this, just think I need to vent xxx

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  • Hi

    im same also struggling .my mum as gone down hill so fast these last 2 weeks . it dont look like mum anymore weight loss and not wanting to talk or go out anywhere .and like you  hoop im trying to come to terms with mum illness.and im so glad that there is someone to talk to about it rather than family.me 2 needed to vent take care sending love Xxx

     

  • Hi Iam new to this site. My Mum had bowel cancer last year and had surgery to remove half her bowel we were told it was a gold star operation and they removed more bowel than they needed to. But she felt unwell after Christmas and ended up in hospital with a really nasty gallbladder infection, they scanned her and found the cancer had returned in her bowel and she had mets in her liver we have been told she has weeks left and I can't come to terms with it . I lost my dad 7 months ago to prostate cancer can't believe this is happening again. Sorry for the rant

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  • Hi Iam new to this site. My Mum had bowel cancer last year and had surgery to remove half her bowel we were told it was a gold star operation and they removed more bowel than they needed to. But she felt unwell after Christmas and ended up in hospital with a really nasty gallbladder infection, they scanned her and found the cancer had returned in her bowel and she had mets in her liver we have been told she has weeks left and I can't come to terms with it . I lost my dad 7 months ago to prostate cancer can't believe this is happening again. Sorry for the rant

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