Hi so sorry ur going threw this... ur emotions must be all over the place... I totally understand as my dad has terminal  prostate cancer and his has spread fast he can't have chemotherapy radiotheraphy or op he got diagnosed in November last year unfortunately it spread fast lungs ribs bones back nd pelvis... nd we got the news it was terminal four days before Xmas....his care plan is in place to we.got told up to 2 years or shorter.... but he's going down hill fast hes in pain... yellow jauncie on his face... his face is drawn in etc... he's tired alot more I have to keep in my emotions from him its like I'm grieving for him already.... my advice to u is make memories if ur mam is up to it like cups of teas... if she likes to do jigsaws etc... what I got told about me dad just talk to him normal.. nd make memories u don't have to go threw this alone... I'm always around... even if u wanna message me privately... hopefully this helps u..easier said than done but be strong sending love to u nd ur mam xxxxx

Hi so sorry ur going threw this... ur emotions must be all over the place... I totally understand as my dad has terminal  prostate cancer and his has spread fast he can't have chemotherapy radiotheraphy or op he got diagnosed in November last year unfortunately it spread fast lungs ribs bones back nd pelvis... nd we got the news it was terminal four days before Xmas....his care plan is in place to we.got told up to 2 years or shorter.... but he's going down hill fast hes in pain... yellow jauncie on his face... his face is drawn in etc... he's tired alot more I have to keep in my emotions from him its like I'm grieving for him already.... my advice to u is make memories if ur mam is up to it like cups of teas... if she likes to do jigsaws etc... what I got told about me dad just talk to him normal.. nd make memories u don't have to go threw this alone... I'm always around... even if u wanna message me privately... hopefully this helps u..easier said than done but be strong sending love to u nd ur mam xxxxx

Thankyou I feel like I am grieving already to even though it hasn't happened yet so I can't Imagine  when she is gone it is a awful thought seems like it isn't real. But I will try do what you said about trying to make things normal and nice, with being in the lockdown it has been difficult to make memories so I am trying to think of ideas, cancer is just awful xxx

Thats the hardest part of this we are restricted in what we can do... its so hard for us all in these situations.... and ask her what she wants too do even if its just sitting with a movie or looking at old photos or talking... big hugs xxxxx