Mum has lung cancer in both lungs and 3 brain tumours (as far as we know from the last scan a month ago). Terminal now and they say she has a few weeks left.
As we all do we search and search for info and other people's experiences. I'm so sad for everybody's loss but there has been some really horrific deaths from lung cancer (which is what the drs think will kill mum).
Mum's currently at home and wants to die here. She doesn't want to go in the hospice at all and I don't really want her to either. But after the stories I've read I dont know if I'll be able to cope with it happening at home. It's just me and mum at home with family coming every so often sound so selfish. I feel awful. I haven't spoken to mum about it because I don't want to upset her.
Mum did say when it's the last days if she is completely out of it and I can't cope then she will go in the hospice. I told er MacMillan nurse about this and she said there would be no point at that time because shell literally be days if not hours away from passing.
Please can people give me experiences of people who have passed from lung cancer that arent horrific :(
