My mum is dying and I don't know what to do.

I have never posted on a forum board before but I do not know where else to go. 

My mum has recently been diagnosed with spinal cancer and health has quickly deteriorated in the past 2 months. She has lost all mobility and has been given a couple of months to live. I am 21 and my sister is 12. I don't know what is going to happen if my mum passes. I'm trying to be strong for my mum, dad and sister but I feel as if my whole world is crashing down. I can't eat or sleep and all I seem to do is cry. My mum is so young and I'm heartbroken I won't get to spend my life with her. Every time I go out I am jealous of people that are out with their mums or people smiling because I'm not happy.

I really don't know what to do. I was hoping to hear from anyone that has been in a similar position and any advice any one could give me. 

Parents
  • Hi, 

     

    I know this post was from a long time ago, but I really need some advice and comfort too. My mum has just been given a 20% chance to survive the bexty 3 weeks. I don't think she wants to fight any mory. It feels like a piece of my heart is dying. How are you all doing now? 

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  • Hi, 

     

    I know this post was from a long time ago, but I really need some advice and comfort too. My mum has just been given a 20% chance to survive the bexty 3 weeks. I don't think she wants to fight any mory. It feels like a piece of my heart is dying. How are you all doing now? 

Children
  • My mum has terminal pancreatic cancer and a couple days ago they found a mass on her brain and it feels like the end of my world. I am so close to my mum and she is literally my best friend and now it feels like everything is slipping out of my hands. 

     

    I have older siblings, three brothers, and they all have someone and I know that it will hurt them too but I also feel like I'm the only one to feel their world crash from underneath them and that might sound selfish but that's how i feel right now. 

     

    Sadly we lost my dad to cancer nearly six years ago and this was the last thing we ever thought would happen and now it is and I feel so lost and alone.