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My mum is dying and I don't know what to do.

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I have never posted on a forum board before but I do not know where else to go. 

My mum has recently been diagnosed with spinal cancer and health has quickly deteriorated in the past 2 months. She has lost all mobility and has been given a couple of months to live. I am 21 and my sister is 12. I don't know what is going to happen if my mum passes. I'm trying to be strong for my mum, dad and sister but I feel as if my whole world is crashing down. I can't eat or sleep and all I seem to do is cry. My mum is so young and I'm heartbroken I won't get to spend my life with her. Every time I go out I am jealous of people that are out with their mums or people smiling because I'm not happy.

I really don't know what to do. I was hoping to hear from anyone that has been in a similar position and any advice any one could give me. 

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    Hi there 

    i wrote a very long mail and mentioned seeking guidance from Mooji . He talks about grief after losing his own son at a young age. Unfortunately my well wishes and condolences for you to lose your mother at such a young age were deleted from this cancer forum with the message that my mail was offering alternative cancer treatments , which i wasn't. I had also recomended taking some flower essences which have been helping me overcome the fear and anxiety i have been having facing my own mothers terminal illness. I am sorry you didn't recieve my warm message . I did however want to mention the spiritual guideness one can find online and hope you find peace in your heart.

    Love and light Y

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    Hi there 

    i wrote a very long mail and mentioned seeking guidance from Mooji . He talks about grief after losing his own son at a young age. Unfortunately my well wishes and condolences for you to lose your mother at such a young age were deleted from this cancer forum with the message that my mail was offering alternative cancer treatments , which i wasn't. I had also recomended taking some flower essences which have been helping me overcome the fear and anxiety i have been having facing my own mothers terminal illness. I am sorry you didn't recieve my warm message . I did however want to mention the spiritual guideness one can find online and hope you find peace in your heart.

    Love and light Y

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