Hi Janna, 

Pretty uncanny, I've never used any support in dealing with my father's cancer but it's so similar and I've found myself googling around to seek advice/support but also help. I'm 22 and my Dad's 55.

My Dad first got cancer in his bowel before it spread to his lungs and liver. He finally beat cancer but with the worst luck in the world ended up getting it again in his lungs. To round up the story it's now spread everywhere and he's got a couple of months left tops. 

It's absolutely horrifying seeing your parent in such a weak state but you have to stay strong. Think less of what will inevitably happen and how you'll react and more about what you feel you need to discuss with them before it's too late. Us humans love trying to look into the future but in this case it's only going to get you down, I'm sure you'll find some way to cope when the time comes. Please remember you have so many people in this world who can support you!

Hi Janna, 

Pretty uncanny, I've never used any support in dealing with my father's cancer but it's so similar and I've found myself googling around to seek advice/support but also help. I'm 22 and my Dad's 55.

My Dad first got cancer in his bowel before it spread to his lungs and liver. He finally beat cancer but with the worst luck in the world ended up getting it again in his lungs. To round up the story it's now spread everywhere and he's got a couple of months left tops. 

It's absolutely horrifying seeing your parent in such a weak state but you have to stay strong. Think less of what will inevitably happen and how you'll react and more about what you feel you need to discuss with them before it's too late. Us humans love trying to look into the future but in this case it's only going to get you down, I'm sure you'll find some way to cope when the time comes. Please remember you have so many people in this world who can support you!