Thoughts on the Dying Process

I insert my late wife's thoughts.  She died of Kidney cancer of the lymph glands on 19th January this year.  She was very positive to the end and tried hard to learn and share her experience for the benefit of others.

Please feel free to view and read and share with anyone who would benefit.  Debbie's horror was dying young and mine is living without her but her message is one of hope. xxx

  • Hi Ian

     

    Our weekend was quiet and uneventful (good, I suppose).  Did manage to go out and start the dreaded Christmas shopping though hubby still remains firmly attached to his armchair.  He has Consultant check up in a couple of weeks (though is still refusing outside 'specialist' help with his depression) followed by GP chat the week after (have been summoned to go along to this too but even this has caused hubby stress! so will have to see what the doc can suggest I do differently). 

     

    Hope all your plans for the happy day on the 22nd are going well and that you are managing some time with your son  before he emigrates - you certainly have a lot going on just now and hope you are keeping well.  Sending hugs and of course a pat for Jack.  Jules x

  • Hi Ian, Hoping you are all organized for the happy day on the 22nd. Iam sending this early so I don't forget !!! One day blends very much into the next and time flies so fast passed us. My very best wishes to you and yours, Hugs Kathy x
  • Thanks Jules,

    I have had lots of trouble getting into this new siting.  I ratherv prefered the old format.  Yes things are very busy with the lead up to the 22nd and everything else.... I will have little time to write till afterward

     

    Hugs

    Ianxx

  • Thanks Kathy,

    I know what you mean with days.  I blinked and my wedding day is almost her!!

    Lots of love 

    Ian x

  • Hi Ian

     

    I think a good few of the 'old' forum users are still finding their feet (took me a while I  must admit) but suppose to be expected. I am pleased you found your way back and appreciate you are 'up to your eyes' with forthcoming happy plans.  Will hope you read this before the 22nd and want to wish you every happiness with your future life with 'your Julie' (and am sure Jack and Julie's cat will form a whole new relationship).  I hope the sun shines brightly upon you both.  Hugs  Jules x

  • Ian,

    Wishing you and Julie all the happiness for the 22nd and your life together afterwards. 

    I hope you have a wonderful day to remember. 

    Hugs

    Annabel. xx

  • Thanks Jules,

    Just popped in here before my next busy week starts....I hope to continue my friendships and support here after the 22nd.  ... I'll let you all know when I come back ...married again!

     

    Lots of thanks and virtual hugs

    Ian xx

  • Thanks Annabel,

    Will be reporting on the event later...Thanks for your support too over these last trying months ..

     

    Appreciated

    Ian xx

     

  • Know you won't have the time (or inclination) to visit the forum beforehand but just wanted to send huge good wishes and hugs for your wedding to Julie tomorrow.  Hope the Welsh weather is kind to you and that you both have a wonderful day of celebration and a wonderful future together. Hugs Jules xxx

  • Hi Ian

    Wishing you a wonderful day for your wedding today, along with a happy and healthy future with Julie!

    Best wishes from everyone at Cancer Chat,

     Jane