Mum passed away

I really need someone to relate to I am 26 and my mum has passed away due to melanoma that spread to her lungs. I can't get over watching her passing away and taking her last breaths. It was just horrific. Can anyone else relate? I am really suffering. I can't talk to anyone about it I get a lump in my throat and I can't speak. I miss my mum so much we was best friends. I don't understand she looked so well I didn't even know she was going to pass away so soon she went into hospital at 6am and she passed away a few hours after. They gave her some injections and that was it she was gone I just don't understand what the hell happened please someone help.

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  • Hey, I am really sorry to hear about your mum. I know nothing j say will make it better, but I want you to know you're not alone. 
    I am 27, and my mum passed away on the 31st March 21, at the age of 55, after 7 weeks from diagnosis. 
    Similar to your mum, there were very little signs my mum had terminal cancer, until she became ill in January. I don't think I ever came to terms with her having cancer, let alone dying from it. 
    This is the worst thing you will ever go through. You don't realise that you were complete, and how perfect life was with having your mum here. But with time, you will learn to live with the loss, and embrace all the good memories you have. 
     

    Your mum is in everything you do. You are half of her. 
     

    I completely understand the pain of losing your mum so young. We're still trying to find our way in life. We need our mums. 

    But at the same time, your mum did not deserve to be in pain. No-one does. 
     

    Please go easy on yourself. 
     

    Sending you lots of love and prayers. 

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  • Hey, I am really sorry to hear about your mum. I know nothing j say will make it better, but I want you to know you're not alone. 
    I am 27, and my mum passed away on the 31st March 21, at the age of 55, after 7 weeks from diagnosis. 
    Similar to your mum, there were very little signs my mum had terminal cancer, until she became ill in January. I don't think I ever came to terms with her having cancer, let alone dying from it. 
    This is the worst thing you will ever go through. You don't realise that you were complete, and how perfect life was with having your mum here. But with time, you will learn to live with the loss, and embrace all the good memories you have. 
     

    Your mum is in everything you do. You are half of her. 
     

    I completely understand the pain of losing your mum so young. We're still trying to find our way in life. We need our mums. 

    But at the same time, your mum did not deserve to be in pain. No-one does. 
     

    Please go easy on yourself. 
     

    Sending you lots of love and prayers. 

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