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Mum passed away

Maddison
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I really need someone to relate to I am 26 and my mum has passed away due to melanoma that spread to her lungs. I can't get over watching her passing away and taking her last breaths. It was just horrific. Can anyone else relate? I am really suffering. I can't talk to anyone about it I get a lump in my throat and I can't speak. I miss my mum so much we was best friends. I don't understand she looked so well I didn't even know she was going to pass away so soon she went into hospital at 6am and she passed away a few hours after. They gave her some injections and that was it she was gone I just don't understand what the hell happened please someone help.

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    Hi Maddison,

    I am so so sorry for your loss. You have had a dreadful shock and trauma. I lost my mum when I was 33(the week before my 34th birthday) and I was with her, so I can absolutely relate to what you've been through.

    If you feel there are unanswered questions about what happened you can get in touch with the hospital and ask to talk to someone who can help you to understand. This may help you to start processing what you've been through.

    I am sending you lots of love, I hope the people on this chat are of comfort to you and keep talking if you need to xxx

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    Hi Maddison,

    I am so so sorry for your loss. You have had a dreadful shock and trauma. I lost my mum when I was 33(the week before my 34th birthday) and I was with her, so I can absolutely relate to what you've been through.

    If you feel there are unanswered questions about what happened you can get in touch with the hospital and ask to talk to someone who can help you to understand. This may help you to start processing what you've been through.

    I am sending you lots of love, I hope the people on this chat are of comfort to you and keep talking if you need to xxx

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