I wanted to reply to you, as although I'm a bit older (33) my brother is your age and I know how difficult and unfair it feels. 

I'm sending you a lot of love and strength for the coming months. Your mum will stay with you and help you cope. 

If you need anyone to chat to, I'm here. 

Big virtual hug ️ ️ ️

Hi [@Maddison]‍ 

I just wanted to say I'm so sorry about the loss of your Mum and what you're going through right now.

I'm 32, so a bit older than you, but I lost my Mum last month to advanced lung cancer. I can really relate to how you're feeling right now, I'm struggling to accept she's really gone and miss her terribly. I didn't know my Mum was going to pass away so soon either as she didn't seem that unwell. Only 3 days after her diagnosis, we had to phone an ambulance for her as she was feeling very breathless and she passed away that day in the hospital. I can understand she shock you're going through right now.

I don't have much advice for you as I'm in the early stages of grief myself but I would say keep talking about it. I've found that talking about what happened to my Mum, including on this forum, has helped me process it all a bit better. Just know you're not alone and please feel free to reach out to me if you want to talk further.

Thinking of you,

J

Hi Maddison,

I am so so sorry for your loss. You have had a dreadful shock and trauma. I lost my mum when I was 33(the week before my 34th birthday) and I was with her, so I can absolutely relate to what you've been through.

If you feel there are unanswered questions about what happened you can get in touch with the hospital and ask to talk to someone who can help you to understand. This may help you to start processing what you've been through.

I am sending you lots of love, I hope the people on this chat are of comfort to you and keep talking if you need to xxx

Hey, I am really sorry to hear about your mum. I know nothing j say will make it better, but I want you to know you're not alone. 
I am 27, and my mum passed away on the 31st March 21, at the age of 55, after 7 weeks from diagnosis. 
Similar to your mum, there were very little signs my mum had terminal cancer, until she became ill in January. I don't think I ever came to terms with her having cancer, let alone dying from it. 
This is the worst thing you will ever go through. You don't realise that you were complete, and how perfect life was with having your mum here. But with time, you will learn to live with the loss, and embrace all the good memories you have. 
 

Your mum is in everything you do. You are half of her. 
 

I completely understand the pain of losing your mum so young. We're still trying to find our way in life. We need our mums. 

But at the same time, your mum did not deserve to be in pain. No-one does. 
 

Please go easy on yourself. 
 

Sending you lots of love and prayers.