Hi Sophie, 

I am so sorry for your loss. It is my first time here and your post made me sign in just so I can drop you a line. 

My Mother was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer and brain cancer as well just a couple of months ago and I am also having issues with my (ex) partner who refuses to move away although we have been living completely separate lives for almost 1 year... I can understand the pressure, stress and pain you have been and still are going through.

I am taking care of my Mother and since her diagnosis she has been living with me so I can look after her and she can spend as much time as possible with her grandkids.

I just wanted to send you my love and if you ever need to talk I am a good listener.

Thank you for taking the time to reply to me especially as you are going through so much as well.

I am so pleased you have your mum with you and that you are able to spend some precious time together. I know each day will get a little easier, it just blows my mind how quickly it happened and that I am never going to speak to her again. The 2 weeks before her death were incredibly hard as she didn't want any of my brothers and sisters (I am one of 7) to know how bad she was and I was the only one supporting her along with my stepdad. I had to tell them all in the end how serious it was which was one of the hardest things I had to do. Luckily we are all very close.

Hope you and your mum stay strong xx

Hi Sophie, 

I hope you are well. 

Thank you so much for your reply. Sending you all my love. 

Innez

Hi Sophie, 

I hope you are well. 

Thank you so much for your reply. Sending you all my love. 

Innez