Lost mum in June, only diagnosed 9 weeks before she passed

Hi there, I'm new on here and thought this would be a good place to find support from people going through similar feelings as me. I lost my Mum in June to lung cancer, she was only diagnosed 9 weeks before she passed away so it was a big shock for her and for all of our family. I was fortunate enough to look after her at home until the day she passed away. Even though I got to spend this precious time with her, I still miss her so much. It's getting a little easier, but there are days where it's so painful. She was my best buddy and confidante - my go to for advice. Is there anyone else who has experienced losing a parent? It's much different to losing a grandparent x

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  • Hello glitterbug62, 

    I am so sorry to hear about your loss. It must have been so traumatic for you especially as your mum was only diagnosed 9 weeks before she passed away. It is normal for things to still feel rather raw and to still be painful for you. There is helpful information on this page on Coping with Grief which I hope will be useful to you. How lovely of you to have looked after your mum at home until she passed away. I am sure she really appreciated your attention and your care. 

    You have come to the right place to meet others who have also lost a parent and I am sure they will come along shortly to share their experience with you. It does help to talk to others who have also lost a loved one in similar circumstances. We're all here for you anytime you need to talk. 

    Best wishes, 

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator

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  • Hello glitterbug62, 

    I am so sorry to hear about your loss. It must have been so traumatic for you especially as your mum was only diagnosed 9 weeks before she passed away. It is normal for things to still feel rather raw and to still be painful for you. There is helpful information on this page on Coping with Grief which I hope will be useful to you. How lovely of you to have looked after your mum at home until she passed away. I am sure she really appreciated your attention and your care. 

    You have come to the right place to meet others who have also lost a parent and I am sure they will come along shortly to share their experience with you. It does help to talk to others who have also lost a loved one in similar circumstances. We're all here for you anytime you need to talk. 

    Best wishes, 

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator

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