I’m 16 and my closest people are gone what do I do

I'm 16 and I had a still born sister when I was 12 it was hard I use to think everyday what I could have done with her I always wanted a younger sibling I'm a boy so

somone to kick a ball with instead of dad was gonna be great but unfortunately she was still born I cry to thise day on her buetifull birthday I'll never forget her name Sophia shortly after this my mum got diagnosed with cancer and passed when I was 14 and that broke me I love her so much I felt empty ruined she always wanted me to become a doctor so after that I got back on track I took my courses happily studying for medicine in 6form always looking up to my mum however 2 months ago my life changed again my dad was dropping my grandma ,grandpa and aunt of back the their house before he went he told me how proud mum is and how much she loved me and he loved me only in about an hour to here there all dead they died in a car accident once again life changed and life was never gonna recover from mums death in the first place so i didn't know what to do know I am living with my buetifull grandparents from mums side but I feel destroyed I can make a list of loved ones I lost and that no right every day I cry it's been 2 months have been a day without crying I miss them all so much don't know what to do

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  • Zingzin oh my dear I'm so sorry for your loss it is astoundingly and deeply painful it shook me to the core at such a young age to be so hurt and traumatized my dear it's just very hard. I can't imagine how you feel.

     

    Please keep talking and try your best not to withdraw whoever it may be that you can share with it's important to have support during the days and nights ahead my dear. Your mom and dad and family would have wanted the very best for you, they were proud of who you are. I'm so glad your dad told you those things. There is hope and love all around you so please don't lose heart my dear.

     

    We may be strangers here but we all know the pain of loss and we surround you with a circle of support, strength, concern and care my dear.

     

    Sending big warm hugs

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  • Zingzin oh my dear I'm so sorry for your loss it is astoundingly and deeply painful it shook me to the core at such a young age to be so hurt and traumatized my dear it's just very hard. I can't imagine how you feel.

     

    Please keep talking and try your best not to withdraw whoever it may be that you can share with it's important to have support during the days and nights ahead my dear. Your mom and dad and family would have wanted the very best for you, they were proud of who you are. I'm so glad your dad told you those things. There is hope and love all around you so please don't lose heart my dear.

     

    We may be strangers here but we all know the pain of loss and we surround you with a circle of support, strength, concern and care my dear.

     

    Sending big warm hugs

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