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I’m 16 and my closest people are gone what do I do

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I'm 16 and I had a still born sister when I was 12 it was hard I use to think everyday what I could have done with her I always wanted a younger sibling I'm a boy so

somone to kick a ball with instead of dad was gonna be great but unfortunately she was still born I cry to thise day on her buetifull birthday I'll never forget her name Sophia shortly after this my mum got diagnosed with cancer and passed when I was 14 and that broke me I love her so much I felt empty ruined she always wanted me to become a doctor so after that I got back on track I took my courses happily studying for medicine in 6form always looking up to my mum however 2 months ago my life changed again my dad was dropping my grandma ,grandpa and aunt of back the their house before he went he told me how proud mum is and how much she loved me and he loved me only in about an hour to here there all dead they died in a car accident once again life changed and life was never gonna recover from mums death in the first place so i didn't know what to do know I am living with my buetifull grandparents from mums side but I feel destroyed I can make a list of loved ones I lost and that no right every day I cry it's been 2 months have been a day without crying I miss them all so much don't know what to do

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    Hey Zingzin,

     

    No one will be able to fix or heal your pain but it can feel ever so slightly better to know you are normal.

     

    It sounds like you have been through some extremely awful moments in your life, moments that are going to shape you forever. I lost my mum at 16 too, I had no dad or siblings (or any close relatives) to begin with so do know that feeling of being completely alone. And trust me when I say, all of those souls taken too soon are now your guardian angels and you will feel them with you wherever you go.

     

    Please don't be upset with yourself for feeling everything you are feeling right now, cry as much as you need to cry, speak as much as you need to speak and try to go out into nature and talk to your family through the sky (or whatever works for you) as much as you can. 

     

    I am sending you all the love I can offer. Be patient with yourself and with the universe and remember to be kind to youself, and love yourself as much as they would all want to love you right now.

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    Hey Zingzin,

     

    No one will be able to fix or heal your pain but it can feel ever so slightly better to know you are normal.

     

    It sounds like you have been through some extremely awful moments in your life, moments that are going to shape you forever. I lost my mum at 16 too, I had no dad or siblings (or any close relatives) to begin with so do know that feeling of being completely alone. And trust me when I say, all of those souls taken too soon are now your guardian angels and you will feel them with you wherever you go.

     

    Please don't be upset with yourself for feeling everything you are feeling right now, cry as much as you need to cry, speak as much as you need to speak and try to go out into nature and talk to your family through the sky (or whatever works for you) as much as you can. 

     

    I am sending you all the love I can offer. Be patient with yourself and with the universe and remember to be kind to youself, and love yourself as much as they would all want to love you right now.

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