I lost my mum to ovarian cancer, long before she was diagnosed she always said once she died she wanted to be with me in an urn in my living room. When mum was diagnosed with terminal cancer she kept saying don’t forget when I’m gone I want to be with you in a lovely urn in your living room. Myself and my dad collected my mums ashes 4 weeks ago and my dad asked to keep her for the night and I said he needs to keep her for a bit, now it’s turned into he’s keeping her ashes but I’m feeling so bad that I haven’t kept to her wishes and have her with me. I understand why my dad wants her at home with him but that doesn’t stop me feeling like I haven’t gone ahead with my mums wishes. A little support is what I need, am I doing the right thing going against what my mum wanted
