Hi May I introduce my self my name is Karen and I have had been unfortunate to lose my Dad from Cancer and Now I have a Aunt with Cancer some one posted on here about their mum who has cancer I’m sorry to hear that what you need to know is hospitals don’t really care about the person who has cancer if the patient is quite young and they have cancer they will try and help the person concerned and if the cancer is at a early stage but I’m
going to be honest here my dad was 75 years old and they didn’t do anything to help him I was the one who brought him a blanket and covered him up my dad had cancer and they didn’t even know ! Until he was brought in for a collapsed lung and then he was in hospital as I was the one that called the ambulance and all they said was my dad was ill and that he had a mass I didn’t know what a mass was I said well give him antibiotics and then it will go then they said your dad has Cancer my world just fell apart as the drs were treating him for something completely different I had a lump in my throat and said no you have it wrong to cut a long story short my dad lived 5 weeks the signs that the cancer had spread was he stopped eating he was always digging at me and I was only trying to help and deal with what I had just been told my dad was bed ridden he couldn’t swallow in the end he fell into a sleep although he could still here us but from this either a induced sleep or either the body was shutting down I looked at his stomach and that had bloated I looked into his mouth and that was a very dark color his arms were heavy I kept saying dad I love you I will always love you his breathing was interrupted as if he was holding his breath for 30 seconds or more and I kept telling him breath dad he then died and I said dad dad dad wake up it’s brought me to tears just writing this I kissed him I love you I can remember it to this day there is a point before they pass they look as if they are healthy like a healthy glow with colour in There cheeks but that is faulse sense of security as within hours he died
