My twin brother died of gallbladder and liver cancer soon after he was diagnosed. He did not leave any funds for his funeral and now the family are arguing amongst themselves. He did not want much of a relationship with his siblings in his later years and because of that they feel they shouldn’t pay towards funeral costs and this means myself and his other brothers and sisters are taking the brunt of the costs. His partner is also refusing to pay towards funeral and claims she has no money, which is questionable. I don’t understand why people do this. I’m not exactly in position to contribute towards my brothers funeral but I will do because it’s the right thing to do and a mark of respect, so I do get why my other siblings would think in the same way. It’s caused such a device in the family and I’m now dreading the funeral. Is this behaviour normal?