Hi I am so sorry to hear about your loss.

Is there life after death...I truly believe there is as I have experienced so many things in my life but that's just my opinion and nobody can tell you for sure. Your pain is still very raw but I can promise you it will get better, you will always miss Paul but you will learn to live again and this is what he would want.

Just take it one day at a time and you will learn to go on. I got a lot of comfort from the spiritualist church when I lost my parents and talking to friends and family helps. There are also bereavement support groups you can go to who will listen to you.

God bless x

Hi i was a sinic till i lost my liz liz and wierd things happend ill not go into detaile as would take to long and i wasnt imaging it . I beleive whatever any one else thinks even the phisysts state that energ cannot be made or destroyed arnt we made of energy so where does it go when we die i thing it just changs so ergo they must still be around just not physicaly i felt my partner i cant explain it but what a comfort it was so try not to dispair there there somwhere .this univers is so complex we will never understand it or are ment to yes ignore the mediums and all that just take comfort if you can best wishe.paul

Hi there ..

Well here's an interesting thread .. so I'll add my thoughts to the mix ..

Yes I believe they stay around us .. as I've said before on here .. the day I got diagnosed with breast cancer, I found the most beautiful feathers everywhere... esp in my bra.. l was overwhelmed with them ..the day I got my result from masectomy... my grade 3 was low risk of spread , they stopped ..

So so many things over the years that can't be explained with logic ... and I feel her close a lot .. like she's saying, I'm right behind you, you just can't see me .. yes I truly believe .. but I think they do things when we don't look for something .. I was 36 when I lost my mum ..

But saying that , these people that claim they talk to the spirits ... well 99 out of 100 are tosh ... they are just making money out of grief .. they have a patter that could be for everyone .. and they look at your reactions to questions .. there was one lady that told me about my mum.. things that only I knew .. but you know she wouldn't take a penny .. she had nothing to gain ... but the others should hang their heads in shame ... 

So yes believe.. but you know what they'd say to you .. you know it in your heart .. and over the years little things may happen to make you think "is it them" ... Chrissie x

Yes theres life after death. 

Im neither religous or a snowflake. Im a 16 stone, Scottish, ex soldier, ex cop, bodybuilder.

Im also slightly gifted spiritually, as are many of my family.

My personal experiences include. My grandfather to whom I was close, spoke to me 2 hours after his death from throat cancer. He said "have a pint for grandad". He was neither anxious, or upset - rather his voice was relaxed, and good humoured. 

I have also been receiving premonitions which I think may indicate my own early death. 

The afterlife I think is like a swimming pool. Bit scary, and you dont want to do it .. but warm and probably fun once you jump in. Its certainly, from other experiences Ive had - a place of love and compassion. And its not just for people, dogs too. Cant speak for other animals.

Spooky! 

I can only relate 2 personal experiences.1:we had a little black dog called buzbee and after she died l clearly felt her jump on to my bed and circle around to go to sleep.this only happened once.2: after my Dad died I had a few strange experiences and saw what looked like black spheres appear twice plus touching.im fairly certain that these things happened in an objective sense and where not tricks of the mind.although I do have difficulty with the survival of personal consciousness and think that we are probably reabsorbed into some kind of oversoul?hard to see how the individual could survive death as our personalities are built up over our life times? just before Christmas,2019,I had the misfortune to be diagnosed with a rare,very, cancer called mycosis fungoides which is the most common of the cutaneous t cell lymphomas and unfortunately by it's discovery it had moved on to stage 2b, the tumour forming stage, which is pretty serious so perhaps in the not too distant future I'll get to find out answers to these questions probably quicker than I'd anticipated getting the answers I seek!

Hi theres t post on here from sarhapine8 its about sighns after loss till i lost my liz i was a none beleiver but some of the things i experianced has changed my view hey we are not here by chance .and ok we are made of flesh and blood but its its the energies that we are made of dosnt die my sympathys for your losses i beleive we will see all aur loved ones again but not just yet .its been nearly two years for me and ive just started to make a new life not one i would have chosen but we have to live on  i know my liz would want that so thats what ime going to do your right its its worst pain .ime a biker to so just try and put something ahead each week to look forward to it will keep you going and one day the sun will shine again maybe not so brightly but it will shine . Paul

Yes definatley herd saw weird stuff after friend spouse died within hours as I was carding for stayed at night even captured it on pics it was him used hear bang on floor too walking to her bed room at night when she was fast asleep herd his bed door open walking on landing creeking every night dureing day too I actually herd her talking to him another time saying to him do you promise we had chat one day I said he's hear you know that she said I know if I could upload pics on hear I put them on 

It is not impossible to talk to the dead if u think they are frauds well l believe there is good and bad every where